It's a big dangerous world out there, full of nasty people and things to hurt our children. Why wouldn't we worry about them? After all they're inexperienced, vulnerable and defenceless.
Okay, there are times when you should worry but most of the time we worry for the sake of worrying.
Over-worried parents become over-protective parents and that's just going to restict your child and make them anxious.
Worrying to much about your children can actually be destructive. It can limit the development of the children and it can have a negative impact on the quality of the parenting you are able to provide.
From a law of attraction point of view (what we focus on we attract) the very thing that you worry about is in fact what you are attracting.
So if you worry that your child will fall if he climbs - you are giving it your focus = You are putting a strong message out to the universe to bring about a fall for your child. This is NOT a result you would ever want for your child.
As you probably already know I'm a huge fan of hypnosis to help with all negative beliefs, thoughts, habits.
I particularly recommend hypnosis for this area as it really is vitally important we control our worrying so that we are not attracting the very things we are worrying about.
How hypnosis can transform your anxious fears into realism
Worry less about your children is an audio hypnosis session for parents or guardians. Using the latest psychological understandings and the transformative power of hypnosis, this session will get you relaxing in ways you would never have thought possible. You will physically experience the effects of reducing worry in your body and in your brain.
Regular listening to this powerful session will allow you to develop a wonderfully calm, clear and objective attitude to the risks and opportunities of life - for yourself as well as for your children. You will discover how being less concerned about them actually makes you better able to recognize the risks that your children will meet, and how to deal with them effectively.
To learn more about this particular hypnosis download and others Click Here!
I have personally used this download with amazing results. I want the best for my kids and I know you do too. I look back and I can see the things I worried about often ended up happening. Now I am able to thing positively about situations I view things differently and focus on what I want to happen.
That's all from me for today. I'm off in search of Jack's Nintendo charger. 1 week and 1 day until holidays and a very long flight, we need the charger! So we're playing the CHARGER HUNT game instead of the BEAR HUNT game. Well, we have to be creative or we'll never get it done.
Have fun
Wendy
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Hi Wendy! Nice post. I found you from the sting on blogcatalog and wanted to check out your blog. My blog is http://thenormalmale.wordpress.com
ReplyDeleteMy focus is on redefining the Normal Male in light of the hooligans our media says real men are. In that vein, I wish more fathers worried about their boys because so many are feeling left out let alone isolated from dead-beat and half-hearted dads. To your point over protective parents are too much and preclude normal development to occur.
Dr. Rod
Thanks for your comments. I think many dads get a raw deal. I come across many loving dads who are doing all they can to provide the best for their children. I coach parents in the law of attraction and more and more dads are now getting involved, which is fantastic. Times are changing and both parents play a huge role in the day to day lives of children.
ReplyDeleteNice blog by the way.
Wendy