Using EFT With Children.

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is an extremelly powerful technique to use with children.  It can be used for pretty much anything.  Including:

• Helping children to feel calm
• Helping with school issues
• Helping with friends issues
• Helping to feel well (clear headaches, tummy aches,etc)
• Helping to sleep better
• Help with sports

This is just an example.  EFT can be used for so many things.  If you have something you or your child needs help with EFT is well worth trying.

Tappy Bear is an interactive bear that helps children use EFT.  Parents can use the bear with their child and the child can use the bear alone to use EFT for themselves.  Children quickly learn how to use this powerful technique themselves with a lovable, cuddly friend. 

For more information on EFT and Tappy Bear click on the link below.  Be sure to sign up for their free newsletters.  There are some lovely stories about Tappy Bear and friends too.

What Are The Rules?

I'm not really keen on the word rules.  It makes me sound like a strict headmistress.  However in my life, with my family and in my home, I need rules.  I've tried it without and I just feel out of control and my family suffer, especially my son.  He is so much happier when he knows the rules or a nicer way to say this is, he is happier when he know what is expected of him. 
Let your children know what the ground rules are. Be clear about what you want.

Our children love to make us happy (most of the time).  If they know what is expected of them, what we want from them life becomes easier and happier. 

I don't have a massive list of rules and the ones I do have are incredibly basic. 

• Speak politely
• Treat people with respect
• Be kind to others
• Be kind to our pets
• If you get things out,put them away.
• Take care of your own things
• Help keep our home tidy and clean

These are for all members of our family.

Jack also has a few little rules that help him stay organized for school.

• Sort school bag out as soon as he comes home
• Homework before play
• Pack bag for the next day.

This is what works for me and my family.  I've tried different ideas over the years and as Jack grows we make changes but this pretty much sums up our family rules. 

Sure Jack will get a pile of things out and trash my living room but he knows I want and expect him to clear them before he starts something new.  Sometimes he doesn't want to do his homework but he knows he can't play, watch tv, etc until it's done. 

This is Jack helping out in the garden.  He's doing it because he likes it not because I tell him he has to. 

Now there are always days where some rules go out of the window and that's okay.  I'll talk about being flexible in my next post. 

My message here is simple.  If you let your kids know what you want in a calm and consistent manner.  The chances are most of the time you'll get it.  The added bonus is a happy child who feels safe.

That's all for today.

Happy Parenting

Wendy

Goal Setting and the Law of Attraction in Terms Your Children Will Understand!

A Happy and Positive Start to 2011

The beginning of a new year is always exciting.  It's a time to take stock of life.  It has long been a tradition to make New Years resolutions.  Some are kept some are broken by the 2nd of January or sooner.

Everyone wants to reach their goals and teaching kids early how to achieve the things they want is a gift they will keep with them throughout their lives. 

Several years ago I bought my own son GO FOR GOALS.  It's goal setting using the law of attraction in a way that kids understand and love. 

Kids feel enpowered and confident they will be able to achieve the things they want.

To find out more for yourself take a look at the link below.

GO FOR YOUR GOALS – How to Guide Your Kids to Achieve Great Success in Life