Quick Tip - Remove Don't, Not No!

As a law of attraction coach one of the first things I talk to my clients about is DON'T, NOT and NO!

It's important to understand that we attract what we focus our attention on.  When we use these negative words we are focusing on what we don't want.

Here are a few examples:

Don't touch that, it's hot!

Don't shout!

Don't forget your homework!

That's not the way to behave!

NOT NOW!

No, you can't have sweets!

No, stop shouting!

No, No, No!

I feel drained just writing all that negative stuff down.  Can you see how using these words focuses on what you don't want.

How about using something like this instead.

Please be quiet.

Remember your homework.

Be nice.

I want you to come here now.

I'm busy right now.  When I am finished I would love to play with you.

You get the idea.  Every negative has a positive, you just have to give it a little thought.

Now this probably won't happen overnight.  Every time you catch yourself saying a negative Don't, Not, No, think about how you can turn it into a positive. 

Have fun with this and make it into a game.  Let all family members in on the game and catch each other out saying the dreaded Don't, Not, No's