Friday, 11 December 2009

Happy Christmas Wishes



Happy Christmas Everyone!  Today is my last blogging day before I head off on my Christmas Travels.  I'm not leaving until Tuesday but I know I'm going to be super busy on Monday and I didn't want to miss saying Happy Christmas to you all.

I want to quickly mention my law of attraction blog http://loa4llife.blogspot.com/
All this week I've been adding posts about how to create your ideal Christmas. I really hope you'll drop by and take a look.  Even though I say so myself they really are great posts.

Christmas is a magical time of the year.  Decorations, celebrations, gifts, family gatherings and letters to Santa.  Children understand the magic of Christmas.  New toys will be opened and played with, food will be eaten but the thing your children will treasure the most is the time you spend with them.  In all the preparations that come with Christmas remember that the real magic is the love we share.

Have a magical Christmas

My love and blessings to all of you

Wendy x

Monday, 7 December 2009

Don't Worry About Your Kids So Much - They Don't Need It

It's a big dangerous world out there, full of nasty people and things to hurt our children. Why wouldn't we worry about them? After all they're inexperienced, vulnerable and defenceless.

Okay, there are times when you should worry but most of the time we worry for the sake of worrying.

Over-worried parents become over-protective parents and that's just going to restict your child and make them anxious.

Worrying to much about your children can actually be destructive. It can limit the development of the children and it can have a negative impact on the quality of the parenting you are able to provide.

From a law of attraction point of view (what we focus on we attract) the very thing that you worry about is in fact what you are attracting.

So if you worry that your child will fall if he climbs - you are giving it your focus = You are putting a strong message out to the universe to bring about a fall for your child.  This is NOT a result you would ever want for your child.

As you probably already know I'm a huge fan of hypnosis to help with all negative beliefs, thoughts, habits.
I particularly recommend hypnosis for this area as it really is vitally important we control our worrying so that we are not attracting the very things we are worrying about.

How hypnosis can transform your anxious fears into realism

Worry less about your children is an audio hypnosis session for parents or guardians. Using the latest psychological understandings and the transformative power of hypnosis, this session will get you relaxing in ways you would never have thought possible. You will physically experience the effects of reducing worry in your body and in your brain.

Regular listening to this powerful session will allow you to develop a wonderfully calm, clear and objective attitude to the risks and opportunities of life - for yourself as well as for your children. You will discover how being less concerned about them actually makes you better able to recognize the risks that your children will meet, and how to deal with them effectively.

To learn more about this particular hypnosis download and others Click Here!

I have personally used this download with amazing results.  I want the best for my kids and I know you do too.  I look back and I can see the things I worried about often ended up happening.  Now I am able to thing positively about situations I view things differently and focus on what I want to happen.

That's all from me for today.  I'm off in search of Jack's Nintendo charger.  1 week and 1 day until holidays and a very long flight, we need the charger!  So we're playing the CHARGER HUNT game instead of the BEAR HUNT game.  Well, we have to be creative or we'll never get it done.

Have fun

Wendy

Tuesday, 1 December 2009

Feel Good Christmas Movie

My little fella is feeling poorly, he's been off colour since Sunday.  When my mum phoned yesterday to check on him she insisted I give him the Advent present she'd sent for him a day early to cheer him up. 

The advent present she'd sent was the SANTA BUDDIES dvd .  We put it the film on immediately and it certainly made him feel better for a little while.  Jack loves the BUDDIES and he's got the whole collection now and they're all great.

I wanted to share this with you just because it's such a great feel good movie, focusing on the true meaning of Christmas.  I think sometimes we can all use this particular message.

Anyway, it's the 1st of December and I'm looking forward to Christmas with my lovely family.  We're heading to Florida again for Christmas so Christmas officially starts for us on the 15th.  We don't buy so many presents these days we focus on having a great time together and having fun. 

I want to wish you all an amazing, magical Christmas.


Monday, 30 November 2009

The Benefits of Kids Cooking In The Kitchen

Kids learning their way around the kitchen is about more than getting them to help you peel potatoes or stir the cake batter, although it is nice when they can help you out. Kids cooking is also about more than trying to keep them busy so they're not whiney and bored, although it does make for a fun time. The other benefits I'm thinking of are what they learn in math, science, literature, and art when they cook. Ssshh... most kids don't even realize they're learning school stuff while they're having a good time in the kitchen.

Math and Cooking

Anyone who can cook can do math. So much of what you do in the kitchen involves doing math and that's why children can learn through following simple recipes.



Take, for example, the subject of adding fractions. When kids have to learn fractions by looking at a bunch of numbers on a page, it doesn't always make sense. However, if you decide you're going to make a double batch of chocolate chip cookies and all of those ingredients (most of which are written as fractions) need to be doubled, your son or daughter can find great motivation in learning how to add those fractions together. After all, they wouldn't want to come up short on the chocolate chips.


Science and Cooking

If you've watched many cooking programs, you may have already become familiar with the magic of science that's at work daily in your kitchen. Helping your children notice the science and giving them permission to experiment with it can be a great learning experience. It will also make for fun lessons they won't soon forget.


For example, you could teach the children about the three stages of matter: gas, solids, and liquids. You could boil water and watch it evaporate, you could freeze water to make it into a solid, and you could use water in its liquid form as part of cooking. If you have several kids, ask them to predict how long it will take for an ice cube to become water vapor on the stove top.


You can design experiments that show what happens to cookies if you leave out the baking soda or the flour. My daughter got firsthand experience with this very thing last weekend when we ran out of flour. She found that pancake mix is not a good substitute.


Literature and Cooking

Another fun way to use cooking in your lessons is by incorporating it into your studies of literature. For many years, schools across the country have been serving green eggs and ham to celebrate the Dr. Seuss classic. Your child could prepare the same thing with a little bit of food coloring.

When your kids are reading stories about children in different lands, find recipes for the foods that kids eat in those countries. You can create a whole meal around a foreign country; and cooking up the native food is an educational winner.

Another idea is to set aside a certain part of the day for literature discussion. Your kids can prepare a snack while discussing the book they are reading. It's a good way to get them used to discussing books.


Art and Cooking

One of the other nice things about the kitchen is that it's a great place for kids to show off their creativity. Children can use traditional food items, such as uncooked macaroni, to create artwork. They can also make pancakes to look like butterflies or mice. Ask your kids to create a sugar cookie then decorate it so that it serves as a model of a human cell.


With kids cooking in the kitchen, the time can be both educational and fun. Help them explore new worlds through their kitchen at home!

Here's a link to cookin' kids Click Here!

Friday, 27 November 2009

Raise Happy Kids Report

Claim your copy of 'Raise Happy Kids' report when you subscribe to my positive parents and kids free news updates.  This is a fantastic report I am sure you'll enjoy reading.

To subscribe go to http://www.loaliving.com/NewsUpdates.html

It's almost time to go and collect JM from school.  He's a super tired boy and I think some quiet time with a special movie and a cuddle will go down well today. 

Have a wonderful weekend and have FUN!

Wednesday, 25 November 2009

Quick Tip - Remove Don't, Not No!

As a law of attraction coach one of the first things I talk to my clients about is DON'T, NOT and NO!

It's important to understand that we attract what we focus our attention on.  When we use these negative words we are focusing on what we don't want.

Here are a few examples:

Don't touch that, it's hot!

Don't shout!

Don't forget your homework!

That's not the way to behave!

NOT NOW!

No, you can't have sweets!

No, stop shouting!

No, No, No!

I feel drained just writing all that negative stuff down.  Can you see how using these words focuses on what you don't want.

How about using something like this instead.

Please be quiet.

Remember your homework.

Be nice.

I want you to come here now.

I'm busy right now.  When I am finished I would love to play with you.

You get the idea.  Every negative has a positive, you just have to give it a little thought.

Now this probably won't happen overnight.  Every time you catch yourself saying a negative Don't, Not, No, think about how you can turn it into a positive. 

Have fun with this and make it into a game.  Let all family members in on the game and catch each other out saying the dreaded Don't, Not, No's

Monday, 23 November 2009

Savvy Money Skills For Kids

Blow is an article written for me by the good people at 'How to raise financially savvy kids'.  Personally I think this is an essential part of childhood.  If your children can become financially savvy early on in life they are pretty much guaranteed financial success throughout their life.  However many grown ups are not fanancially savvy either, my parents, although wonderful people were NOT.  I intend to make sure my children have all the tools they need to be financially savvy.  I hope you find the article below interesting.

Happy Parenting

Wendy


Most parents realize teenagers need to know basic money management. But how young should you start teaching savvy money skills to your children?

Some may think preschool/kindergarten age children are too young for financial lessons, but this is a good time to begin laying down a strong financial foundation.

Children who are three to five years old are beginning to understand money gives them the power to buy stuff.

However, they do not have a clear idea of what money is worth or how much things cost: they may tell you a house costs 50 cents and a gumball costs a “million billion” dollars.

Identify money, both coins and bills If children are going to spend money responsibly, they need to be able to tell a penny from a dime and a quarter from a nickel. To help children learn to identify coins, let them play with some real coins, separating them into piles by color and size.

As they play, you can talk about how much each coin is worth and its name. You may not want to give your children real bills to play with, but you can buy play money that looks somewhat realistic. Your children will enjoy playing grocery store and bank with this play money. You can also play board games that use play money, such as Monopoly Junior.

Make good trades Children are learning that they can trade money for things. Help them make this connection by letting them pay for an item when you shop or putting coins in a vending machine.

You must also help your children make good trades. A youngster who enjoys baseball cards may decide to trade the neighbor boy $20 for his collection of worn cards. They may also be thrilled to trade a ripped-up five-dollar bill for a shiny new quarter. Make it a rule that a grown-up has to approve all trades.

Make choices Lessons of life started early last longer.

Children need to learn they can’t have everything they want and they must make choices. Give young children the opportunity to make simple choices, such as buying apples or oranges when you go to the grocery store. Explain that you aren’t choosing to spend the money to buy both.

Learning what a choice is and what to do if you discover the choice is wrong, or not the best choice, is one of the most important lessons of life. Start creating your financially savvy child today with these tips.

How To Raise Financially Savvy Kids offers more tips and strategies on giving your children money savvy skills.Click Here! and find out more ways to help your children now.