Positive Parents & kids

Positive Parents and Kids has MOVED

2011-12-12T01:45:00.000-08:00

Thank you so much for following Positive Parents and Kids blog over the years. I have now moved to

I will be moving some of the posts from this blog over to the new blog and I will be revamping others so that I only take the best of what I've done so far. I've already added some new posts too.

I hope you will come along and join me.

Thank you and as always Happy Parenting

Get Your Child To Clean Their Teeth

2011-11-22T08:40:00.000-08:00

Are you one of the many parents that has to keep telling your children to brush their teeth? As parents we know the importance of clean teeth but often our children think it's boring and try to skip this part of the daily routine. Here's an idea I thought might interest you.

http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/health-issues/clean-teeth?3460

I'm a huge fan of hypnosis and instant downloads are perfect for using at home and with your children.

My friends over at Hypnosis Downloads are amazing an they are always coming up with great downloads. This one is especially to help you build automatic routines for teeth cleaning http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/health-issues/clean-teeth?3460 I have to say I think this is brilliant.

Happy Parenting

Wendy

Review ~ Beyond Toddlerdom Tips by Dr. Christopher Green

2011-06-17T02:41:00.000-07:00

I bought many books on parenting when my son was very small, now I tend to trust my own insticts. I was recently having a sort out of my books and came across a little book that I love. Dr. Christopher Green is a straight talking, practical kind of guy. There are no 'To be a perfect parent...' statements in hear, just common sense tips to keeping your 5 to 12 year olds on the rails (as he puts it).

Here are his top 15 secrets to successful parenting.

Be available
Routine and structure
Consistent limits and rules
Flexibility and compromise
Choice and freedom
Communicate early
Ask, don't nag
Notice the good
Reward good behaviour
Subtle rewards are the best
Confrontation causes resentment
Calm spreads calm
Cool off and regain control
Forgive and move on
Don't stir up the animal

Dr. Christopher Green is one of Britain's best known parenting authors. The thing I like so much about his writing is that he has learned from the parents he has worked with.

I've had this book around 3 years now and it's looking well worn to say the least. Picking it up again today I know this is a book that was well worth the money. It saved me many, many headaches.

Toddler Taming is another superb book by Dr. Christopher Green it's a parents' guide to the first four years of your childs life.

FREE Parenting With The Law Of Attraction Coaching Trial

2011-06-07T03:42:00.000-07:00

BIG NEWS and a GREAT OPPORTUNITY.

I have been asked to put together a program to help parents understand how to use the law of attraction and how to share it with their children.

I am going to be running a trial of this program (it will all be done by email sessions). I am offering it completely free of charge for the first 20 people who sign up for the program. You will then form my trial group to work through this program and help me iron out any areas that need more attention, etc.

You will also have access to my Private Focus Group so that you can share your experiences with other people who are also following the program.

There are (approx) 21 sessions. Whilst there is no strict time scale to complete each session I would like anyone signing up for the trial to be fully committed and able to set aside some time every day or so to work on the sessions. Most sessions only take a few minutes to read through and most can be done as ongoing projects. Sometimes all you need to do is take note of your thoughts, etc.

Go straight to http://www.loaliving.com/ and sign up now if you're interested. This is a wonderful opportunity to be involved in something that will not only change your life, it will change your childrens too.

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

"It's not only children who grow. Parents do too. As much as we watch to see what our children do with their lives, they are watching us to see what we do with ours. I can't tell my children to reach for the sun. All I can do is reach for it, myself." ~Joyce Maynard

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Dr. Wayne Dyer is someone I admire a great deal. Today I want to recommend his incredible picture book for Children. If you want your child to believe they are incredible this is the book for you. Enjoy.

Playing with Your Child – How to Start It, Why It’s So Important

2011-06-01T03:32:00.000-07:00

I'm delighted to be sharing this wonderful article with you by the wonderful Winsome Coutts. Parenting with this lady on your side is much nicer and you're kids will thank you for taking the time to get to know her. Well okay maybe they won't thank you but they will benifit from it.

Playing with Your Child – How to Start It, Why It’s So Important

In these busy times, when parents and children have schedules packed to the max, family closeness can fall by the wayside. Most of us have to make an effort to guarantee that work, school, sports, and chores don’t swallow up the very relationships that make those things important.

When is the last time you played or goofed around with your child? Can you remember back that far? Many parents can’t. Life has made us so serious, so focused, that we’ve lost the joy of the simple things, and play was one of the first to go.

But as any child instinctively knows, play is essential to life. It brightens the heart and lightens the spirit. For kids, who live closer than we do to nature, play is as spontaneous as breathing. Sadly, most grown-ups have lost that skill. Our children can be our refresher course.

Playing with your child brings you back to the present, reminds you of what matters, and slows you down long enough to smell the roses. It also connects you emotionally with your child, rebuilding the closeness that the fast-paced, boring routines of life are all too quick to strip away.

Playing together is even more important for your child than it is for you, because she needs to feel close to you to feel loved and happy. If you’ve neglected time together for long enough, it may appear that your child isn’t interested in your attentions. She may even tell you as much. But that’s just bluster, hiding the fear that you will disappoint her again if she lets herself wish for time alone with you. If you initiate playing together, and do it at frequent intervals, even the most aloof pre-teen will start to look forward to it and, in time, throw herself into the fun.

What kind of playing should you do? Pay attention to the activities your child engages in: his idea of enjoyment. If these things seem boring to you, try hanging out nearby, observing as he does them, with words that express your curiosity. You just may find you actually develop a genuine interest. If your child is a couch potato, take up your perch on the couch beside him, but after you’re allowed “in,” initiate some play that might be more pleasant than TV.

Think back to what you did as a child that was memorable, especially activities you did with your parents that stay with you still. Think about things that are free or cost little, that involve experiencing life together. Start a list of ideas as they come, and add any of the following that you resonate with:

■Raking stacks of autumn leaves, then jumping or rolling in them

■Taking a hike through the forest preserve

■Skating at the roller rink together

■Walking the dog, taking turns with the rope

■Reading comics or joke books together (or books of poetry or stories)

■Making cookies, pizza or a cake

■Building a fort out of snow or chairs and blankets

■Playing hide and seek, hide the thimble, cards or board games

■Lying on a blanket looking up at the stars

■Sitting in front of the wood stove in a dark room, telling stories

■Making shadow figures on the wall with your hands and a flashlight

■Having a treasure hunt

■Roasting marshmallows over a fire

■Watching a parade

■Going to the aquarium, zoo or museum

■Flying kites together

■Building something

■Making a scrapbook

■Making up a silly poem or song

■Watching a movie, with popcorn and no interruptions

■Playing a memory game, like “I’m going to Grandma’s house, and in my suitcase I’m going to pack …”

■Getting up early to watch the sunrise from a hill

■Playing games of pretend

■Going somewhere special, like the beach

■Having a pancake picnic in the snow

Playing together is different than finding entertaining activities for your child. Play involves you, while entertainment excuses you from the picture. If you find yourself saying, “But my schedule is too busy for any of the things on that list,” consider whether your schedule needs some pruning. After all, who’s going to remember in 20 years if you stay late at work or not next Tuesday? But will your child ever forget the Tuesday you ride the rollercoaster together?

Closeness with a child cannot be taken for granted. Like any other relationship, it will slip away unless it’s made a priority. Nothing builds trust and bonding with a child like sharing a moment of silliness and laughter. Come together for light-hearted play, and you just may find your child opens up about serious subjects. The relaxed atmosphere of play helps us let our guard down and reveal more of ourselves.

When you play together, let your child feel like the most important person in your world. Give him your undivided attention: no cell phones, no interruptions, no slipping into your own private thoughts. Be present – body, mind and spirit. Then let yourself do whatever comes naturally, with the abandon you felt when you yourself were a child. Your instincts will be your guide.

Growing closer through play is easy. It just takes dedicated moments, given on a fairly regular basis, so your child begins to count on having time with you.

Let your child re-teach you the wonderful secrets of play. You both will feel more secure and peaceful – and a whole lot happier, as the reason you do it all for, starts to come back to you.

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Winsome Coutts holds a teacher’s certificate in education and has written hundreds of articles on self-development. She has studied with Bob Proctor and John Demartini, popular teachers featured on “The Secret” DVD. She is the passion behind the http://www.4lifehappykids.com/ and is a parent and grandparent.

Winsome is author of “Go for Your Goals” for kids – a set of downloadable e-books that guide your child through the joyful steps of learning visualization, goal-setting and the Law of Attraction. Simple language enhanced with beautiful illustrations and worksheets make these books appealing and motivating. To learn more, Click Here

What Would You Do Differntly?

2011-05-16T03:22:00.000-07:00

I just watched the most amazing video. The name of the video is 'If I had to raise my child again.'
I've watched three times so far and cried every time. Mmm, Jack would call me a wuss. He got that from the ice age movie by the way. Anyway I wanted to share it with you today. It's only quite short so it will not take much of your time but it will (I'm sure) have a long lasting impact on your relationship with your child.

Watch it here

I'd love to hear what you think.

Happy parenting as always, Wendy x

Marianne Williamson Speaks About Spiritual Parenting

2011-05-10T01:16:00.000-07:00

Great news!

Marianne Williamson is being interviewed this week by my amazing colleague Kim Primatic.

The topic? The Role of Parent as a Spiritual Guide.

This is a rare opportunity to enjoy a front-row seat as Marianne speaks about spiritual parenting, shares stories from her own personal parenting experience and gives her insights on how we can best serve our children.

This interview is one of 12 featured compelling keynotes in the Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit. This is the third and FINAL week of RCKT, and there is still time to register, with still lots of great information to come. So grab your totally FREE Online Pass now while there’s still time:

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These top-notch speakers are covering current challenges such as child obesity, raising healthy eaters, child/teen depression, how to help your kids do better in school, helping kids harness the power of their
minds, emotional intelligence, happiness, emotional well-being, spiritual well-being, and so much more!??

Registration and the 48-hour replays are FREE. (Kim has been very generous and she’s kept the calls up for longer than the 48-hour replay period for busy parents and teachers, PLUS she’s keeping up several calls for the duration of RCKT.)

This is an event not to be missed. Grab your totally FREE Online Pass

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Happy Parenting

Wendy
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Free Coaching Offer

2011-05-03T02:01:00.000-07:00

Self esteem is something that effects all areas of our lives and as a parent if we allow ourselves to have low self esteem this mindset inevitably rubs off on our children. Parents who have high self esteem are happy, positive, confident and so are their children.

During the month of May I am running a special SELF ESTEEM BOOSTING program. This is a five session email program. And I'm offering the first session absolutely free so that you can try before you buy. If you like my style of coaching and want to carry on with the final 4 sessions simply pay 20€

That's less than 5€ per session to set you on a path to feeling great about yourself and life.

To claim your free session email me at wendy@loaliving.com

Happy Living

Wendy

Do You Want Family Life To Be More Peaceful?

2011-04-20T03:13:00.000-07:00

I want to remind you that the TeleSeminar Series for parents and teachers called the Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit is fast approaching!

Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit is a FR*EE TeleSeminar series hosted by Kim Primatic providing a wealth of life-changing information from 13 experts, authors and speakers in raising healthy, happy and conscious kids!

It’s specifically designed for parents, teachers, caregivers and influencers of children.

The speaker lineup is amazing and includes Marianne Williamson, Sonia Choquette, Matthew Ferry, Sharon Wilson, Dr. Darren Weissman…plus 8 more wonderful experts. http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4268132

These leaders will cover current challenges such as child obesity, raising healthy eaters, child/teen depression, how to help your kids do better in school, helping kids harness the power of their minds, emotional intelligence, happiness, emotional well-being, spiritual well-being, and so much more!

As you probably would agree, many parents and teachers are stressed out and overwhelmed these days. This leaves a toll on kids and teens.

The Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit is committed to provide information, motivation and inspiration to help parents, teachers and everyone who cares about kids.

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Happy parenting

Wendy xx

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Check out Jack's Puppy Blog.

2011-04-18T06:37:00.000-07:00

I had some information sent through to me last week about Teen Cash Machine which is an program designed for teen to set up websites to generate money for themselves. Even though my son Jack is only 9 (soon to be ten) I thought I'd take a look. I firmly believe the internet is the way forward for our children and it's something I love too. I clicked onto the video presentation which explained everything. Very interesting. Anyway a couple of days later I received another short video of the creators daughter (age 11) who has used the program checking out how much money she's made. She was super excited. Jack happened to be in the room and obviously picked up on what I was watching and asked me to play it again. I did and then I showed him the first video too. His response was "Can I get it mum, PLEEEAASE!"

I talked it over with him and also with my husband. We decided as he was only 9 that I would help him to create a blog and see if he enjoyed it. The deal is if he likes it and sticks with it we will buy him the Teen Cash Machine program for his birthday in April.

He's super excited and delighted with his blog Puppy from the Pound. Please come and take a look and show your support. http://puppyfromthepound.blogspot.com/

Thanks

Wendy

P.S. If you're interested in learning more about Teen Cash Machine, I have a coupon to save money. Just click on this link http://www.teencashmachine.com.au/coupon/1336934

How To Raise happy and Conscious Kids

2011-04-13T03:34:00.000-07:00

As parent, teacher or caregiver, do you ever wonder how you can really help your kids reach their highest potential? I know I certainly do.
We have some unique challenges in our society that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and unsure on how to help our kids to be happy and healthy, inside and out.

Soaring childhood obesity rates, child/teen depression, peer pressure, academic pressure, competitive sports (and the increased rate of injury of late!), the internet and social media and their challenges, lack of sleep, feeling wiped or wired, along with violence on TV and video games. On top of all this, our teachers are being asked to do more with less, while class sizes increase!

Since giving up on our children is not an option… I am so excited to tell you about a TeleSeminar Series specifically designed for parents, teachers and caregivers called the Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit! http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4268131

It brings together top experts and transformational leaders in the areas of spiritual awakening, parenting, creating a healthy lifestyle, work/life balance, happiness and much more!

The Raising Conscious Kids TeleSummit is a FREE TeleSeminar series hosted by Kim Primatic providing a wealth of life-changing information from 12 experts, authors and speakers in raising healthy, happy and conscious kids!

The speaker lineup is amazing and includes Marianne Williamson, Sonia Choquette, Matthew Ferry, Sharon Wilson, Patrick McMillan…plus 7 more wonderful experts. http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4268131

It’s designed to help you get a game plan on how to solve many of the challenges faced by parents, teachers and caregivers.

Here are some of the topics being covered:

* Strategies single moms can use, from super successful dads

* How to make your parenting more easy and effective

* How to move from confrontation to collaboration with your kids

* How to win your child’s respect, gain their support and create more peace and love in your home

* The TEAM strategy that will have your child eating more healthy foods

* Using the “law of attraction” with yourself and your kids: the best parenting tips from interviews with five teachers from The Secret

* How to help your child develop a deeper connection to his inner guidance, so he can trust himself instead of outside forces

* How to create an inspired family that truly honors each member, in body, mind and spirit

* and so much more

So don’t miss out. Grab your totally FREE Online Pass to this amazing event! You owe it to yourself and we owe it to our children! I've already got mine.

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Happy Parenting

Wendy

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Is Your Child A Budding Writer?

2011-04-08T01:07:00.000-07:00

Nearly all children love stories. Now you can encourage them to write their own stories with The Scribble Scrabble Writing Journal for Kids.

As a parent who loves reading and writing I couldn't resist this. It's fantastic and so much fun for kids, actually for me too!

You can either download immediately or order a print copy.

You can even try before you buy. Give it a try and see if it's something your child will enjoy.

For more information and your free story starter sample Go to The Scribble Scrabble Writing Journal for Kids

Learning Is Supposed To Be Fun

2011-03-29T03:43:00.000-07:00

When learning is fun it's so much easier to understand, even as an adult that's true. Because we live in Spain and my 9 year old son attends a local Catalan/Spanish speaking school I am always looking for ways to keep his English learning at a good level. He reads lots of books and we speak in English at home but we know to keep the level high he needs more than this. I see so many English living here who do not have a good command of the English language.

My son loves the computer, so an internet based learning program is ideal for him combined with other activities we already do. I found a program called K5 Stars that looks so much fun and there is a free report and free trial offer available at the moment. I knew I had to share this with you all. I think we all like free offers now and then, especially when it helps our children.

Looks like a whole load of fun to me.

Happy Parenting.

Wendy

P.S. Remember to claim you freebies quickly.

Playtime Issues, Recorder Practice, Jigsaws and a Puppy

2011-03-11T02:34:00.000-08:00

This week seems to have rushed by, It certainly seems to have got to Friday very quickly. I love the weekends though so I'm fine with that.

This week Jack has had a problem with a boy at school. The boy in question told Jack he was not allowed to play with him and the rest of the kids Jack usually plays with. Icould see this situation was really bothering my son (9).

I asked my son to keep saying this positive affirmation. I'm a great kid and I have lots of wonderful friends. I always have lots of people toplay with at break time.

I asked him to imagine playing his favourite games at break time with his normal friends and I also asked him to welcome in other kids.

The boy kept doing the same thing throughout the week but it had no where near the same impact on Jack or the other kids.

While Jack is at school I also affirm that jack is a great kid, he is happy and confident, he makes friends easily and he attracts wonderful friends who like him just the way he is.

I also did some role play with Jack and helped him with posture to project a positive image. A wonderful resource and a real breakthrough in this area is Izzy Kalman's website http://www.bullies2buddies.com/

Recorder Practice

Today Jack is having a friend over for lunch. They have a music project to complete which means they have to practice asong on the recorder this afternoon. I have to admit I'm not looking forward to that. I think I'll suggest they practice in Jack's room.

Jigsaws and Puppies Do Not Go Well Together!

What was I thinking? Obviously not a lot when I decided to buy a 1000 piece Simpsons jigsaw puzzle. Our puppy has eaten or chewed at least 20 pieces. I'm determined to finish it today, perhaps I'll get it done whilst Jack and his friend do recorder practice.

Happy weekend wishes to you all.

Here's Lola - Our beautiful Jigsaw piece eating puppy.

Fiesta Day Today.

2011-03-01T04:45:00.000-08:00

Here in Spain we are having a local fiesta which mean I've got my little fella at home today. It's a cold and reainy day with strong winds, so were not venturing out, other than to take the dog out to play. She's still not able to go out for a proper walk yet so it's just running around the garden for her exercise.

Here's Jack enjoying his favourite Japonese meal (noodles)

So far this morning we've competed in Club Penguin sports day, tackled the jigsaw we started yesterday (1000 pieces), stopped the dog from eating at least 20 things she's not supposed to eat, watched Nick toons, saved a polar bear and climbed a pyramid whilst fighting off mummies. I wonder what the rest of the day will bring.

In between all our excitement I managed to write an article you might enjoy reading. Tips to create peaceful school mornings.

Hypnosis Help with First Day at School Anxiety

2011-02-26T09:06:00.000-08:00

My own son was three year old (far too early in my opinion and I would never do this again. I just went along with the rules at the time) when he started school. I loved having my son at home with me and was devastated when he started school. It took my son weeks to settle into school and I remember crying most mornings.

My friends ay HypnosisDownloads.com have created a wonderful download First Day at School Separation Anxiety

I wish I'd had this. I know this will be a wonderful resource for parents and children facing this challenging time later this year.

I'm a huge fan of Hypnosis downloads and over the past few years have built up quite a library to help me live a wonderful life.

To see other downloads click the link above and from there you will be able to access the full list.

Happy Parenting

Wendy

Love Reading, Misbehaving, Law of Attraction Parenting and Listening

2011-02-19T14:30:00.000-08:00

I've been busy writing all week and wanted to share my parenting articles with you. I hope you'll come along and take a look. I'll be adding more as the weeks go on and I'll try to keep this blog updated. You can subscribe to get my articles into your mailbox if you want via the site.

As always I love to hear your feedback.

Encourage your child to love reading

What to do if a child misbehaves

Parenting with the law of attraction

Do you really listen to your child?

Happy Parenting.

Wendy

Helping kids release fear with EFT

2011-02-17T02:10:00.000-08:00

I found this wonderful EFT video from Brad Yates and I had to share it with you. I'm very familiar with Brad and his work. He is particularly famous for his programs Money Beyond Belief, Confidence Beyond Belief and Body Beyond Belief.

This video however is for children. All children I have ever known (as an ex-nursery school worker that's a lot), feel afraid from time to time. This video will release those fears and help your child to feel calm.

Positive parents and kids update

2011-02-16T02:37:00.000-08:00

Wow, it's already February. As you can see it's been a while since I last posted. It's been a busy couple of months. I've been busy with my coaching work and family life. I'm also writing a lot for suite101. I'm loving writing daily as this is something I haven't done for some time. My articles are a mixture of life skills, personal development, law of attraction, paenting, etc.

You can go to my profile page at http://www.suite101.com/profile.cfm/763616

My articles are listen at the bottom of my profile page.

You can subscribe so that you always get my articles as they are published.

New Puppy

Well it's been a roller coaster ride with our lovely new puppy Lola. We got her from the local dog rescue center. She's five months old and a labrador/pointer cross (we think). We had her her in our home for just 6 days before she had to have a stay at the vet's. She had parvovirus which is an incredibly dangerous dog illness. The vet explained the situation and there I was with our new puppy that Jack (age 9) had bought with his own money, being asked if I wanted to go with the treatment which I was told could easily result in her dying and was very expensiveor we could put her to sleep there and then. Needless to say I was in floods of tears. We had to give her a chance. The first 72 hours were critical to her survival. We said we had to give her at least the 72 hours. So she stayed at the vets on a drip to make her better. We visited her often and prayed she would be home healthy and strong soon. We said positive affirmation and visualized her running around the garden.
I'm happy to say after the 72 hours were up she had made a full recovery and is now home, happy and healthy. She's one very loved puppy. Now we just need to work out how to convince her 5.30am is not playtime in our home. Any ideas?

Books

I love books and I'm delighted to say Jack share my passion. He's a book fanatic. I wanted to tell you about a brilliant book I bought him for Christmas. It's the Nat Geo Kids infopedia (almanac in USA) and it's absolutely packed with the most wonderful information. It's the sort of book that all ages love and you can pick it up for a couple of minutes or an hour. If your kids love information and books this one is a must.

I got my copy from Amaon.co.uk but I know it's available on Amazon.com too.

This is the same one on Amazon.com

They do new ones every year and we got last years when we were in Florida on holiday. He's usually got them both either in the car or at the side (or in) his bed.

Well, I'd better get myself moving. The sun has finally come out so I'd better go and put the washing out.

Happy Parenting.

Wendy

Using EFT With Children.

2011-01-31T08:22:00.000-08:00

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is an extremelly powerful technique to use with children. It can be used for pretty much anything. Including:

Helping children to feel calm
Helping with school issues
Helping with friends issues
Helping to feel well (clear headaches, tummy aches,etc)
Helping to sleep better
Help with sports

This is just an example. EFT can be used for so many things. If you have something you or your child needs help with EFT is well worth trying.

Tappy Bear is an interactive bear that helps children use EFT. Parents can use the bear with their child and the child can use the bear alone to use EFT for themselves. Children quickly learn how to use this powerful technique themselves with a lovable, cuddly friend.

For more information on EFT and Tappy Bear click on the link below. Be sure to sign up for their free newsletters. There are some lovely stories about Tappy Bear and friends too.

What Are The Rules?

2011-01-24T01:19:00.000-08:00

I'm not really keen on the word rules. It makes me sound like a strict headmistress. However in my life, with my family and in my home, I need rules. I've tried it without and I just feel out of control and my family suffer, especially my son. He is so much happier when he knows the rules or a nicer way to say this is, he is happier when he know what is expected of him.
Let your children know what the ground rules are. Be clear about what you want.

Our children love to make us happy (most of the time). If they know what is expected of them, what we want from them life becomes easier and happier.

I don't have a massive list of rules and the ones I do have are incredibly basic.

Speak politely
Treat people with respect
Be kind to others
Be kind to our pets
If you get things out,put them away.
Take care of your own things
Help keep our home tidy and clean

These are for all members of our family.

Jack also has a few little rules that help him stay organized for school.

Sort school bag out as soon as he comes home
Homework before play
Pack bag for the next day.

This is what works for me and my family. I've tried different ideas over the years and as Jack grows we make changes but this pretty much sums up our family rules.

Sure Jack will get a pile of things out and trash my living room but he knows I want and expect him to clear them before he starts something new. Sometimes he doesn't want to do his homework but he knows he can't play, watch tv, etc until it's done.

This is Jack helping out in the garden. He's doing it because he likes it not because I tell him he has to.

Now there are always days where some rules go out of the window and that's okay. I'll talk about being flexible in my next post.

My message here is simple. If you let your kids know what you want in a calm and consistent manner. The chances are most of the time you'll get it. The added bonus is a happy child who feels safe.

That's all for today.

Happy Parenting

Wendy

Goal Setting and the Law of Attraction in Terms Your Children Will Understand!

A Happy and Positive Start to 2011

2011-01-02T01:31:00.000-08:00

The beginning of a new year is always exciting. It's a time to take stock of life. It has long been a tradition to make New Years resolutions. Some are kept some are broken by the 2nd of January or sooner.

Everyone wants to reach their goals and teaching kids early how to achieve the things they want is a gift they will keep with them throughout their lives.

Several years ago I bought my own son GO FOR GOALS. It's goal setting using the law of attraction in a way that kids understand and love.

Kids feel enpowered and confident they will be able to achieve the things they want.

To find out more for yourself take a look at the link below.

GO FOR YOUR GOALS – How to Guide Your Kids to Achieve Great Success in Life

Do You Need An Energy Boost?

2010-12-22T01:13:00.000-08:00

I love Christmas but it can be super draining on our energy levels. Take a look at my energy boosting idea.
Get an energy boost? http://dld.bz/Cggh

Praise Your Children

2010-12-21T10:40:00.000-08:00

Look for things to praise your children for. So many parent (including me sometimes) spend so much time focusing on what their child is doing wrong they completely miss the things they do that are fine, great, wonderful.

When your child uses good manners, acknowledge it. When your child plays nicely acknowledge it. You get the idea.

Make your praise genuine or your kids will know.

Narnie And A Wonderful Evening.

2010-12-10T02:19:00.000-08:00

Well it's been a short week for us here in Menorca as we've had fiesta's Monday and Wednesday. Jack was off school til Thursday. We went to see the new Narnia film. It was brilliant. I can always remember when my sister bought Jack the first of the (new) Narnia films on DVD. A friend said "He'll either love it or hate it." I was pretty sure he'd love it as I had done as a child. He did. It's a magical film of wonder and suprises. It ticks all the boxes for me and obviously Jack too.

After the film Jack asked if we could go into the play zone. They have a variety of games that give you tickets depending on how well you've done. We played a couple and then he spotted the duck game. You have to knock over as many ducks as you can. For each duck you get a ticket. The machine was churning out tickets that fast and Jack was having so much fun, I couldn't resist handing him money for another go. He put the coin in and nothing happened. He politely went over to the desk and told the man. He chatted to the man all the way back to the machine and thanked him when he'd mended it. The man realised that the machine at the side of us was out of tickets. He opened it up and pulled out a load of tickets that were jammed and handed them to Jack. Jack's eyes lit up with excitement.

When we counted up the tickets at the end of Jacks game we had enough to get a gorgeous Christmas reindeer (a soft squishy toy one). That left Jack with 30 tickets left over. He politely asked if he could get anything with 30 tickets. The man asked him if he would like a santa hat. Jack was delighted as he knew the hats were supposed to be 150 tickets. Not only did Jack get the hat, he also got the 30 tickets to keep for the next visit. We both agreed that he was a very nice man and thanked him again before leaving.

It just goes to show being polite and friendly goes a long, long way.

Have a wonderful week. Have fun.

Wendy x

Decide What's Important And Set Clear Guidelines (House Rules)

2010-11-15T06:40:00.000-08:00

All families are different. We all have different things that are important to us and we all have different commitments such as work, school activities, etc. Only you the parent/s can decide what house rules fit your own family.

NOTE: I am a firm believer in doing what works for you and your family. What works wonderfully for the Jones family across the road could be a very bad match for your own family.

Top Tips

Sit down and decide what is important to you. Perhaps early bedtimes and healthy meals are important to you but sitting at the table isn't. Only you can decide.
Once you know what's important set your house rules. Don't go overboard though. Nobody likes every minute of the day to be taken up by rules.
Let everyone in the household know the house rules. Be clear about what each rule means and give examples whenever possible.
Stick to the rules. Kids and teens need consistency.
Evaluate the rules every few months to see if they still fit your family.

The New Harry Potter Film

2010-11-11T02:19:00.000-08:00

I'm so excited about the new Harry Potter film. It's amazing to think that I took our older son to see the first one when I was pregnant with Jack. Jacks 9 now and can't wait to see if SNAPE really is the bad guy. I think he'll turn out to be good after all.

I heard yesterday that J.K. Rowling has hinted there could be another film. I know this one is in two parts but really as much as I love them I hope that's the end of it.

These Harry Potter items make great Christmas presents

Free Coaching Session

2010-11-08T07:00:00.000-08:00

I'm feeling generous. For 1 week I'm offering you the chance to get 1 free email coaching session for free. You can use the session to focus on any area of your life.

Email me at wendy@loaliving.com and let me know you want to take up this offer.

Bullies To Buddies

2010-11-02T04:22:00.000-07:00

The media is finally giving attention to something that has needed attention for decades: Bullying. The more people talk about this serious problem...the faster we can help children who are being bullied (and children who are doing the bullying as well).

Which is why Rhonda Ryder and Patrick McMillan of the Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo have decided to re-post the interview they did with Izzy Kalman from Bullies to Buddies.

This was an often shocking interview that you will not want to miss. Many people (including myself) have shared how powerful Izzy's approach is...and the folks at Happier Kids Now want as many people as possible to hear it.

Only the other day Jack came home and was upset about a girl he was sitting next to in class who was being mean to him. I used the skills I had learned from Izzy in the recording to show Jack through role play how to handle the situation. He quickly picked up on how easy the technique was.

If you know ANYONE who has a child suffering from being bullied, or a child who is engaging in bullying behavior, please tell them to sign up right away so they can get access to this interview.

I'm not sure how long the free interview will be posted so tell them to hurry:

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?af=1231943

Plus, when you or a friend signs up, you'll also receive a copy of Patrick's ebook, "The Ultimate Kids Guide to Happiness" as a gift.

These interviews and materials are changing lives.

"Many of the speakers brought me to tears with their words of love and peace and healing. I hope that enough people will get this very important message and that it will change the world for children so that children can be safe and secure and happy." -Alysia

Please spread the word!

Wendy

P.S. Sign up here to listen to Izzy Kalman's interview now - at no cost to you (there are other incredible Replays to listen to as well).

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?af=1231943

Halloween Ideas

2010-10-27T03:07:00.000-07:00

We love Halloween. We've got the pumpkin ready and Jack's got his candy bag to take away with us. He's a little dissapointed that he won't get to trick or treat this year as we'll be away. Were going to have a little party when we get back instead. It will be late but he'll still have fun. I'm going to make some of the party treats from Kellogs listed below and of course we can still decorate and make our home a spooky hideaway.

Have a frightfully fantastic time this halloween.

Wendy

Check out these funky and delicious halloween treats from Kellog's http://www.kelloggs.co.uk/whatson/ricekrispies/?cid=ppc_Google_halloween_kids#

Check out Activity Village for a load of ideas for halloween. http://www.activityvillage.co.uk/halloween.htm

Please Vote For Me

2010-10-26T04:02:00.000-07:00

Hi, As you know I've been following the Happier Kids Now Online Expo. All the speakers have now been on (but there's still lots going on). Anyway Patrick and Rhonda are now running a contest. I had to let them know what were the Aha moments for me. I've added a comment and to be in with a chance to win I'd like you to come and vote for me (Wendy Tomlinson). Go to http://dld.bz/33XR. You'll also be able to find out more about The Happier Kids Online Expo and the speakers.

Thanks

Wendy x

Wouldn't It Be Great If...

2010-10-22T01:27:00.000-07:00

Here's a wonderful game you can play anywhere and anytime with your kids.

Wouldn't it be great if...

Let your own imagination run wild and teach your children to think big.

Wouldn't it be great if we could close our eyes and imagine the palce we want to go to and instantly transport ourselves there.
Wouldn't it be great if we could fly.
Wouldn't it be great if we could draw a picture of something and click our fingers to make it appear.

Your kids will come up with some fascinating ideas. We recently played a similar version of this game. My eldest son who's now 22 asked "What superpower would you most want to have?" Then "What would your superpowered pet be able to do?" Even big kids love this game. It's a firm family favourite with us.

The car is a great place to play these games. Make sure everyone gets a turn to play.

Top Ten Tips For A Happy Bedtime

2010-10-21T01:37:00.000-07:00

Quiet time before bed.
A drink and light snack.
A warm bath (we have special aromatherapy bath products)
A cuddle.
Chat about the good things that have happened today.
Chat about the next day.
A stroy.
A nightlight.
Play some calm music, songs or a story when you leave the room.
Tell your child you love them.

Happiness -Yes Please!

2010-10-15T10:58:00.000-07:00

I've just listened To Christine Carter Ph.D. Author of Raising Happiness: 10 Simple Steps for More Joyful Kids and Happier Parents on The Happier Kids Now Online Expo.

Up until today I knew nothing about Christine. She was just a name on the speakers list.

I have been so busy this week and I am now trying to catch up on the replays from this week (Christine was a speaker on Tuesday).

I was so impressed, what a real parent this lady is. Very honest and incredibly helpful. I picked up some fab ideas I can quickly implement with Jack (9).

I'll tell you what I liked so much. She's not selling herself as the perfect parent that so many parenting experts do. There was something about her that I really connected with.

You can listen to the replay by signing up for The Happier Kids Now Online Expo Click Here The Expo is Free and there are still lots more fantastic speakers to come.

Find out about Christine's Book Raising Happiness. I've already ordered my copy.

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

Rainy Days, Family Time and Happy Kids.

2010-10-11T05:48:00.000-07:00

Well it looks like summer is well and truely over here in Menorca. We always get our fair share of rain towards the end of October. I have to admit I quite like it after such a long hot summer. I love snuggling up on the sofa on a rainy day and watching films, reading, playing board games, challenging Jack on wii games, baking... What are your favourite things to do on a rainy day? If you have some fun activities, please share them with us.

It's a fiesta here in Spain tomorrow and our eldest son is arriving later today, so I'm looking forward to some family time together. We're going to go out to our favourite restaurant. Lunch time eating is big business here. We love to have the Menu del dia's. It's a 3 course meal typical of Spain. They are usually really reasonable prices and you get to try things you probably wouldn't order from a normal menu. I love the typical Spanish restaurants, they're busy, full of chatter and most importantly for me children are always very welcome.

I'm loving the Happier Kids Now Online Expo, I know I'm kind of going on a lot about this but I am so impressed. I knew it was going to be good just because I know the people who've organized it are amazing and I was already familiar with some of the speakers but wow, I have been amazed at how brilliant each speaker has been.

Here's a quick run through of this weeks speakers.

Monday 11th October

Debbie Godfrey – Redirecting Children’s Behavior

John Seeley – Helping Your Kids Get Unstuck

Tuesday 12th October

Christine Carter, PhD – Emotional Literacy and Raising Happy Kids

Bruce Lipton, PhD – The Science of Conscious Parenting

Wednesday

Robin Sharma - Inspiring Our Future Leaders

Bob Doyle – Modeling Happiness – It Starts With You

Thursday 14th October

Dr. Dan Yachter – Child Obesity, ADHD, Medications and Vaccinations
Rhonda Ryder – The Law of Attraction and Parenting

Friday 15th

Randy Taran – Happy Teachers = Happy and More Successful Students

If you haven't signed up yet go to http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?af=1231943

the Online Expo is free and well woth every minute of your time.

Happy Parenting.

Wendy xx

Today's Speakers on the Happier Kids Now Online Expo

2010-10-07T03:54:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to add a little note to keep you up to date with The Happier Kids Now Online Exo.

Today's Speakers are:

Scott Noelle: HELP! I'm Turning Into My Parents

Steve Sisgold: Discover Your Child's Body Wisdom

Here's the link to sign up. It's free. http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?af=1231943

You can also listen to the replays for previous days too.

Happy Parenting

Wendy xx

Happier Kids Now Calendar Of Speakers

2010-10-06T02:11:00.000-07:00

The Happier Kids Now Online Expo is now in full swing with an amazing line up of speakers. All you need to do to take part is click on the link below and follow the instructions. It's free and it's amazing. Anyway I'm going to keep this short so that you've got time to head over and see for yourself.

Here's the link http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?af=1231943

Once you sign up you'll get a free EBook and there will be a link to the calendar. If you hurry you should still be able to listen to replays of the speakers that have already been on.

Today's speakers are Dr. Joe Rubino and Marianne Williamson.

Happy Parenting

Have fun

Wendy xx

Is It Going To Be A Fun Day Or A Miserable Day?

2010-10-05T02:39:00.000-07:00

On the way to school this morning Jack announced "Today is going to be a miserable day". My mind instantly went into overdrive. As a LOA mum, the last thing I want him to say is he's going to have a miserable day. After all expecting a miserable day will attract a miserable day.

Think today will be miserable and it probably will be.
Think today is going to be a fun and happy day, it probably will be.

Here's the story behind this statement from by 9 year old son.

Yesterday at school he was playing with some friends and reading between the lines they got a little carried away and the teacher told them they had to miss patio time (playtime) for a week.

I've never really understood removing patio time but that's another story.

Anyway, so that's the reason he thought today was going to be miserable. As far as Jack is concerned Patio time is the best part of the school day. How can it possible be fun if this pleasure is removed.

After a quick reminder to think of what he wants instead of what he doesn't want, here's what I said:

"Today could be the day that something amazing happens inside and because you're not out in the patio you'll get to see it".

It goes on.

"Or, you're teacher might have got abducted by aliens last night and has had her memory wiped clean so that she can't remember that you're supposed to stay in at patio time".

And there's more.

"Or, you're classroom might suddenly transform into an enchanted world. It only happens on certain days of the year in certain classrooms around the world and today it might be your classroom".

By this time Jack was laughing and coming up with his own ideas.

Okay my what could happen ideas are a bit bizzare but they made my son laugh as I knew they would and he went to school feeling happy about the day. So even if he does have to stay in he'll be thinking of the fun ideas we came up with on the journey to school.

We don't always have to be realistic with our kids. A little imagination goes a long way.

Happy Parenting

Wendy xx

Growing Happy Kids Author (new video!)

2010-10-02T11:05:00.000-07:00

Wow, I'm adding a link below for a terrific video from Maureen Healy, one of the featured speakers on The Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo.

If you haven’t signed up for the free event yet, so you can get access to the amazing speakers such as Bob Proctor, Marianne Williamson, Sonia Choquette, Dr. Joe Rubino, Bruce Lipton, Bob Doyle and more…you can do so on the video blog.

Plus you’ll get a copy of Happier Kids Now Co-Founder’s ebook, The Ultimate Kids Guide to Happiness when you do.

Here’s the link to the video…

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3939967

Maureen is the founder of Growing Happy Kids and author of "365 Perfect Things to Say to Your Kids."

In this video, Maureen shares her Morning Mottos with you which will give you plenty of ideas on how to teach young kids how to say powerful words to themselves...and get in touch with how amazing they are.

Some teachers are using this technique in the classroom. See what you think!

Happy parenting

Wendy x

Oh, before I go - When you go to the video blog, don’t forget to sign up for the Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo if you haven't done so already!

Chance To Get Free Coaching From A Happier Kids Now Expert.

2010-09-30T02:05:00.000-07:00

The Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo has got an incredible line-up of speakers!

Have you signed up yet? It's free!

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3936513

Here's just a FEW of the experts and their topics:

Scott Noelle - Help! I'm Turning Into My Parents!

Bob Proctor - Getting Out of The Way of Your Child's Greatness

Marci Shimoff - Happiness Secrets for Parents and Teachers

Bruce Lipton, PhD - The Science of Conscious Parenting

Marianne Williamson - Honoring Your Child's Spirit

Robin Sharma - Inspiring Our Future Leaders

Sonia Choquette - Bringing Intuition Home to Your Family

Bob Doyle - Modeling Happiness

Dr. Dan Yachter - Child Obesity, ADHD & Medications

Shelly Lefkoe - Nipping Negative Beliefs In The Bud

Randy Taran - Happy Teachers Equals More Successful Kids

Dr. Joe Rubino - Develop Soaring Self-Esteem in Kids

Rhonda Ryder - Law of Attraction and Parenting

Christine Carter, PhD - Emotional Literacy

Izzy Kalman - Transforming Bullies into Buddies

Patrick McMillan - An Emotional Fitness Program for Kids

Rhonda Ryder and Patrick McMillan have been working on this Virtual Expo for nearly a year and they have done an incredible job bringing all of these experts together.

If you haven't done so already, sign up here to get your free access PLUS your complimentary ebook, Patrick McMillan's The Ultimate Kids Guide to Happiness.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3936513

Also, they have a special offer going on right now for 500 people...that I wanted to make sure you knew about. Tens of thousands of people are going to see this - so I wanted to share it with you while there's still time.

You see, Rhonda and Patrick have not only assembled a dream team of 26 experts speaking about matters so important to us as parents, teachers and influencers of children, they have also assembled an impressive list of twenty parenting and relationships coaches.

And so, if you decide to act on the special offer while it's still available, you will also receive a complimentary 30-minute parenting or relationship coaching session with your choice of over 17 amazing coaches.

Plus,if you are one of the 500, you will also receive - at zero cost -Rhonda's program which includes another 5 hours of training with 10 parents who are raising happy kids by using leading-edge parenting techniques.

When you sign up for your free access to the Expo, you will receive the details on the special upgrade opportunity in case this is something you want (before the big flood of parents and teachers jump on it).

So if you haven't done so already, sign up here for your free access to The Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo and your complimentary ebook now:

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3936513

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

Why Teens Rebel (it's not what you think - new video)

2010-09-28T04:11:00.000-07:00

Things are really getting exciting over at The Happier Kids Now 2010 Expo, especially with the addition of Bob Proctor to their list of fabulous experts – all joining together to talk about the most important job in the world:

Raising Happy Kids and Teens!

The Expo takes place October 4 – October 21 – so if you haven’t done so already, make sure you go ahead and sign up for access.

It’s free!

Plus, you’ll get a copy of Happier Kids Now Co-founder Patrick McMillan’s ebook, The Ultimate Kids Guide to Happiness when you do.

NEW VIDEO FROM BOB DOYLE

Also, when you click on this link, you'll see a new video from Bob Doyle.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3933476

Patrick had the chance to sit down and do a video interview with Bob, one of the featured experts in the Happier Kids Now Online Expo.

Bob is a personal transformation expert and a father of three, AND a featured expert in the movie The Secret. Since 2002, his Wealth Beyond Reason and Boundless Living programs have allowed thousands
of people to reclaim their destiny and begin creating lives of true abundance and fulfillment.

Here’s just a taste of what Patrick discusses with Bob in the video:

**Why teenagers rebel (and it’s not what you think).

**How managing your emotions is the best way to help kids and teens learn the skills needed to lead an emotional healthy and fulfilled life.

**How to encourage your kids’ dreams, goals and passions (instead of squashing their spirit – despite your best intentions).

**What kids are REALLY learning from watching TV.

**The teacher’s role in a child’s life.

Check it out! It’s a great video and a rare opportunity to hear Bob talk about his views on kids and teens…and his own experience with his own children.

Here’s the link to the video again for your viewing pleasure.

Enjoy! And don't forget to sign up for the Expo plus the free ebook if you haven't already done so!

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3933476

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

Law of Attraction EBook Available Now!

2010-09-27T07:46:00.000-07:00

Yeah, finally I can tell you that my law of attraction Ebook is complete and available at http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/wendyatloalivingdotcom

Whilst this isn't a parenting book I wanted to share my exciting news with you. As many of you will know I am a LOA MUM. I share the law of attraction with my own son (he's 9). I am a life skills coach and a law of attraction practitioner. I love sharing my knowledge with others through my coaching, blogs, website, courses and now this EBook.

It's packed with exercises to help you achieve success in ALL areas of life.

I hope you enjoy reading and using this book as much as I enjoyed writing it.

Happy living

Wendy

Guaranteed to Help Your Kids Live a Happy Life! (new video)

2010-09-27T00:49:00.000-07:00

Wow, I can't believe we've been given yet another free video from the people at Happier Kids Now.
Every morning before they leave for school, single dad Patrick McMillan and his two boys, Liam (9) and Hayden (12) do this one Gratitude Activity.

Listen to Patrick tell you all about it in his new video (it’s only 4 minutes):

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3931076

Do they miss a morning here and there? Occasionally. But for the most part, this is their practice.

They each own a “Gratitude Journal” and every morning they think of five to ten things they are grateful for and write it down.

This is a great way to start your day. Try it – you will be amazed at the difference it makes in your mood. Then you can teach this simple process to your kids.

Just imagine if we started teaching our children how to focus on what they are grateful for. By the time they got to be teenagers, perhaps it would seem like second-nature.

Did you know it’s been scientifically proven that people who do this one Gratitude activity…

**Live longer

**Experience less illness

**Have longer lasting and more meaningful relationships

**Are more successful in business and academics

**Enjoy a greater satisfaction with their life

Find out what Gratitude Activity this is by watching the video so you can help your kids develop life-long habits of gratitude.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3931076

This video has been shared with us by Rhonda Ryder and Patrick McMillan ~Your Happier Kids Now Expo Hosts

I love this video and and so thankful to Rhonda and Patrick

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

P.S. Check out the Speaker Calendar to find out the speakers and their topics during the Happier Kids Now 2010 Online Expo – Oct 4 – Oct 21. Webcast and call-in details will be emailed to you prior to each call.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/calendar.html

Self Esteem Video For Kids

2010-09-23T00:44:00.000-07:00

Wow, the organizer's of The Happier Kids Online Expo are really being generous right now. Yesterday we received the wonderful free EBook (The ultimate kid's guide to happiness) and today they're sharing brilliant video to help with boosting our kids self esteem.

You can pick up a copy right here http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3926795

The video is by one of the Speakers on the Online EXPO - Shelly Lefkoe.

So simple yet so powerful. Please take a few minuts right now to watch the video. I know you'll be pleased you did.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3926795

Here's to happy parents and kid's everywhere.

Wendy x

Free Ebook plus FREE access to Happier Kids Now Expo

2010-09-22T00:20:00.000-07:00

This is so exciting. You may remember a little while ago I told you about an up and coming event. It's called The Happier Kids Now Online Expo.
The Happier Kids Now Online Expo is a FREE Interview Series hosted by Rhonda Ryder and Patrick McMillan providing a wealth of life-changing information from 24 happiness, self-esteem, health and education experts.

It’s specifically designed for parents, teachers and homeschoolers.

And, when you sign up for access to the event (at zero cost!), you’ll receive a complimentary copy of Patrick’s popular Ebook, The Ultimate Kids Guide to Happiness.

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3925009

The line-up of speakers is incredible and includes Bruce Lipton, PhD; Marianne Williamson; Bob Doyle; Marci Shimoff, Sonia Choquette; Christine Carter, PhD, Shelly Lefkoe, Dr. Dan Yachter…plus 16 more!

These leaders will cover current challenges such as child obesity; child/teen depression; ADHD, autism and nutrition; how to help kids do better in school…and solutions such as teaching kids the power of their minds; emotional intelligence, character building, positive parenting and so much more.

As you probably would agree, many parents and teachers are stressed out and overwhelmed these days. This leaves its toll on kids and teens.

Plus, statistics show childhood anxiety and depression levels are rising at alarming rates.

Giving parents and teachers the strategies and tools to instill optimism and self-confidence in their children and teens is the mission of the Happier Kids Now Online Expo.

So don’t miss out. Grab your totally FREE Online Pass to this amazing event – plus grab Patrick’s Ebook now!

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3925009

Happy Parenting

Wendy

P.S. Help spread the word about this event. Please share this email with every parent and teacher you know!

http://www.happierkidsnow.com/cmd.php?Clk=3925009

LOA SHOPPING

2010-09-18T14:26:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone,

I'm so excited to tell you my news. I have just launched LOA SHOP
I love discovering new law of attraction (and related) products, so I decided it was time to share my products/resources and products/resources I use.

I hope you'll come along and visit us and keep coming back. I'll be adding regularly.

There's a special catagory (see left hand side) just for Parents and Kids.

Check out LOA SHOP at http://loashop.wordpress.com/

I hope you enjoy shopping with us.

Wendy

Confidence is Growing

2010-09-16T00:11:00.000-07:00

I'm feeling very pleased with my little man this morning. He decided he wanted to walk to school by himself. Well when I say that, what I actually mean is I drive him to school (we live too far from school to walk or bike) and park up in the nearby car park. I walked with him to the crossing by the school and then he went in by himself which meant he also had around 10 minutes in the playground by himself.

For Jack this is a major breakthrough and a sure sign of growing confidence. I have to say I thought I could be walking him into school at 16.

But you know what that would have been fine too. All kids are different and that's how it should be. Who wants a load of clones? Sure most of the kids have been going in by themselves for ages now but there are still others who want their parents to wait with them. Our children will be adults before we know it. There's no rush.

Please don't rush your children into growing up. They will do it when they are good and ready. They will feel good about the move from little kid to big kid and so will you, even if the thought of them no longer needing you is a little scary.

Confidence building tips:

Let your child know you support their choices
Encourage your child to be himself/herself
Encourage your child to talk about friends, school, likes, dislikes, feelings...
LISTEN. Letting your child know they are important enough to give them all of your attention for a while gives kids a huge confidence boost.
Make things fun
Give lots of genuine praise

Happy Parenting

Wendy

First Day Back To School.

2010-09-13T04:03:00.000-07:00

Today is Jack's first day back to school. He's still at the same school but he's got a new classroom (in THE BIG KIDS side of the school), a new teacher and the kids were all mixed up this year, so he's with some new kids and some from last years class. Thankfully he's got his two best friends from last year with him.

We had to go and wait in a new playground (patio) and Jack's teacher from last year came along to take Jack and his old class to their new rooms.

It was really emotional and I'm counting down the minutes until I can go and collect him. It feels like a whole new chapter to our lives is starting and I suppose this is the start of Jack becoming A BIG KID too. I'm pleased and a little bit sad. I'm also looking forward to seeing what this new chapter will bring us. It's that in between stage between being a kid and becoming a teenager.

I'm off now to start getting ready for the school run. Yes, I am 15 minutes early still but I can't wait any longer.

Have fun

Wendy x

Goals For Kids

2010-09-08T13:39:00.000-07:00

Now is a great time to help your kids set goals for the coming school year. I've been using GO FOR GOALS for a couple of years now and Both my son and I love the fun exercises.

As a law of attraction coach and an LOA MUM I have often thought about writing an E-Book for childen but I have to say I'd rather just tell you about this E-Book instead. It's brilliant and it works.

I became an affiliate for Go for Goals shortly after I started to use it with my own son. I was that impressed. So this is how it works. I tell you how great it is, if you like the sound of it click on the image below or this link http://tinyurl.com/ykps7ct you can read more information about the E-Books and if you decide to buy them I get a thank you cheque for telling you about Go for Goal. So I'm happy and I'm pretty sure you'll be happy too.

You win and I win. Most importantly our kids win.

So what have you got to loose, click on the image or link to read more.

Happy Parenting

Wendy x

You Are The Best Person To Decide What's Right For Your Family

2010-09-07T01:51:00.000-07:00

You know what? When I was a new mum I was bombarded with information on how to be the best parent. I had well meaning advice from friends, family and of course the professional advice from the health visitor. You get the idea I'm sure.

Result - A very confused new mum.

I tried to do what I thought other people expected me to do. I did this for the first 4 years of my sons life before I woke up and realised that I didn't need to try and please anyone else.

My point is, as parents we are the best people to know what is right for our families. Once I worked that out I became a much happier mum.

You see what's right for the super mum next door and her perfect family is not what's right for you. And what was right for your own parents almost certainly will not fit with your own family. I had a great childhood and great parents but that still doesn't mean their way works for me and my family.

Do what works for you and your family and enjoy being the best parent you can be for YOUR KIDS.

Discipline - My Style

2010-09-02T00:51:00.000-07:00

Wow, I can't believe we're already in September. Although I have to say I'm thankful for the slightly cooler weather now. I hope your still enjoying what's left of the summer holidays.

I was asked to write a series of How To... articles recently. The idea is that the company gives me a title and I write an article for them. I had 3 articles to complete this week. The first two were no problem but the final one took a lot more though for me. You see the title was HOW TO DISCIPINE CHILDREN. I have to admit this is not an article title I wouyld ever have chosen myself but that's what it was and I needed to write an article.
After several false starts I eventually wrote, what I conscider to be a great article. Today I want to share a brief outline of "My style of discipline for children."

Only you know what works in your family and what's important to you.
Decide what is important and make them ground rules
Let your children know what the ground rules are. Be clear about what you want
Be flexible (OCCASSIONALLY the ground rules can bend)
Be fair
Praise your child
Lead by example (be a great role model)
Make time for fun
Make time to really listen

If your child does misbehave:

Look at your own behaviour first. Is your child reacting to your behaviour?
Do they need something? Food, drink, a hug, sleep...
Tell them what you want and keep repeating/reminding.
Find out why? Sometimes your child will simply find what they are doing fun. If it's not okay with you explain why.
Say thank you for the behaviour you want
No means No. If you say no, then mean it and stick to it.
Time out. Time away from what they want to do in a safe place next to you, to calm down.
Reminder of what you want
ALWAYS treat your child with LOVE, KINDNESS and RESPECT

For me the last point is the most important. Always treat your child with love, kindness and respect. This is the way they learn to treat you, their friends and others they meet the same way.

I really hope you enjoy today's post. As always please feel free to contact me on wendy@loaliving.com

Happy parenting

Wendy

P.S. I love to hear from you. Please leave your comments below. I always read them.

Go With The Flow

2010-08-27T00:51:00.000-07:00

Wow, what a great day we had yesterday for JM's birthday. It was a day of allowing for me. I have to admit I normally want everything planned but this year I decided to go with the flow. Nothing happened the way I thought it would but that was okay. The party started at 1pm not 1.30 as I had planned and that was okay. Some people arrived very late and that was okay. Some people didn't stay as long as we expected and that was okay too. The party went on until 6pm and JM told me it was the best birthday ever.
When we allow the Universe to deliver what it knows to be the best for us instead of having to do what we think is best for us we have an AWESOME TIME.

Thank you Universe.

Wendy

BIRTHDAY WEEK

2010-08-23T06:39:00.000-07:00

It's birthday week. JM will be 9 years old on Thursday. He's growing up so fast. Today we've been party shopping. We're having his party at home (his choice) and he's invited a fantastic mix of friends. I am happy to say that my son has friends ranging from little tots to people in their late 70's and loves spending time with them all. We have around 15 children coming and 15-20 adults.

So today we've bought a piñata and loads of toys and sweets to go inside. We bought ballons, and shiny flag banners to decorate the garden, Wall.E plates and cups. I managed to talk him out of the loud noisey hooter things as I thought the neighbours wouldn't appreciate the noise.

I managed to get some of the party food today but the rest will have to wait until Wednesday. Thank goodness Granny is flying in Wednesday morning to help.

Well I'd better get off. Lots to do this week

Have a fabulous week and have FUN!

Wendy

Happy Kids EXPO

2010-08-18T07:46:00.000-07:00

Every now and again I receive information that stops me in my tracks. This morning I received an an email telling me about the Happier Kids Now Online EXPO. It looks great. I've already watched a fabulous interveiw with BOB DOYLE (from the secret) and I have more to watch later. Anyway I really wanted to share this with you all. Just click on the link below to find out why I'm making a fuss about this.

I'm Declaring Today a HUG A LOT DAY

2010-08-12T01:57:00.000-07:00

It's official. Well sort of. We've had a hectic few weeks, lots of family visiting, fiestas (village party, late nights, rubbish food and fizzy drinks. What a combination. A time bomb in the making.

I have to admit I was getting a little stressed and a few raised voices were to be heard in our home.

However we reached breaking point the other day and I could see I was letting my son down big style. He was being told off constantly yet my husband and I were not providing what he needs to be at his best.

After a long chat with my husband and a diet, sleep rethink we are back on track.

He's almost back to his normal self. Except for still being tired. So that's why I'm declaring today a HUG A LOT DAY.

Happy Parenting (sometimes takes a major rethink)

xxx

ALWAYS HAPPY TO HEAR FROM YOU wendy@loaliving.com

Happy Summer Holidays

2010-06-23T23:22:00.000-07:00

Jack has started his summer holidays now and we're all so excited. I know many of my readers homeschool and don't follow a strict school year but I want to wish each and every one of you a wonderful, fun filled, love filled summer.
It's really common where I live to send children to summer school but whilst I think the organizers of many of the summer schools on offer put in a great deal of work it's not for us. I asked Jack if he wanted to go and he said "NO!". Thant's enough for me.
I did send him a few years for part of the summer when we first lived here so that he would keep up with the language but now he's fluent and mixes well out of school. The first year I kept him off for the whole of the summer (almost 3 months) people were full of comments like "You'll regret it," "He'll be bored in a couple of weeks". Well we loved it and we are all looking forward to having an amazing summer.
We have a small speadboat which is kept a few minutes walk from our home. Yesterday my husband finished work early and off we went for the day. It was completely spur of the moment and the freedom of having no time restraints was fantastic.
We're making a family summer 2010 book as we go along. Lots of photo's and messages. Then at the end of the summer we are going to have it made into a real book. Jack is in charge of putting it all together and writing most of the messages. We made one last year on in a notebook. We wanted it to be a bit more grown up for Jack to do this year. We haven't told him we're going to have it made into a real book yet. It can be his end of summer suprise.
Whatever your summer plans are I hope you have lots of fun and thoroughly enjoy your family time together.

Happy parenting

Wendy x

Ask For What You Want

2010-06-16T03:14:00.000-07:00

In law of attraction terms it is essential to ask for what you want and focus your attention on that.
When dealing with children this is especially important. Today I have added a new article on my Videojug Pages site - Law of Attraction parenting. I am so excited about being a founder member and I think this is a great sharing idea. You can read my latest article (page) at http://pages.videojug.com/sites/90-Law-of-Attraction-Parenting

You can support me by following each site. I have two so far. You can also click the like button for each page and I lways love comments.

Happy Parenting x

Law of Attraction Articles on Videojug

2010-06-12T03:24:00.000-07:00

I was recently invited to become a founding member of the new Videojug Pages. Videojug has been around for quite a while now. It's the pages that's new.

I have set up two sites so far. One is general law of attraction information and the other is a law of attraction parenting site.

Please come and support me.

Read my free articles and check back regularly. I will be adding lots over the next few weeks.
Click on the follow site button
Click the like button on each page (article)
Leave a comment. I love comments.

You can find my Videojug pages sites at
http://pages.videojug.com/sites/90-Law-of-Attraction-Parenting
http://pages.videojug.com/sites/56-Law-of-Attraction-Living

I hope you enjoy learning more about the law of attraction and law of attraction parenting.

Hands Up Who Feels Frazzled!

2010-06-08T02:11:00.001-07:00

Go on put your hands up if you're feeling frazzled. I can't show you but believe me I have both hands up in the air. Yep, positive parent, LOA (law of attraction) mum that I am, I still have those days where I get frazzled and today is one of them. I have tooth ache and a list of jobs still to do before I collect Jack from school. When I tell people that I have a positive parenting blog and I promote using the law of attraction in all areas of life including parenting, oh and I'm a life coach too, they assume I have everything under control 24 hours a day, everything runs smoothly and all is calm. They seem to think I float through life on a cloud. Well let me set the record straight. I, although I tell my husband I am, am NOT perfect and my life is not always perfect. I love my life and every year it gets better and better but hey, I'm only human. And my mostly adorable 8 year old son is also only human.
I was tired yesterday and so was he. After I over reacted at something he'd done in the garden he marched inside and locked the door behind him. I can tell you I saw no funny side to this at the time. We were both grumpy until bedtime. This morning was slightly better but not much. So once I've posted this link I'm going to make myself a drink, take myself off into the garden and sit in the sun for a while. Yes, I know the jobs will still need doing. I'm going to listen to one of my favourite hypnosis downloads. I haven't decided which one yet - I might go for my see the funny side download because when I get frazzled I don't tend to see the funny side of anything. Hmm, yes this one will do the trick nicely. To be honest, all the downloads are so relaxing any would do the trick.

If you want to find out more go to http://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/personal-development/lighten-up#3460
There are absolutely loads to choose from and some come in packs to save money. That's what I usually do.

Allow Emotion

2010-05-17T00:55:00.000-07:00

We live in a culture of supressed emotions. I sometimes wonder if some people would like us to return to the children are seen but not heard days of living.

I constantly hear parents telling their children "Stop crying your a big boy/girl," "Don't be upset," "Don't get angry."

Perhaps we could try a different way. If your child is angry there is a reason. If your child is frustrated there is a reason. If your child cries there is a reason. Showing emotions is good for everyone but especially children.

Just let them show the emotion and BE THERE for your child. That's all, just BE THERE. DO NOT find an answer and DO NOT try to make it better. You child will learn from this experience. They will learn they have parents who are there for them when they need it no matter what and they will learn how to deal with their emotions themselves.

As a law of attraction coach I strongly encourage strong emotion. Of course I do want to see positive emotion as much as possible. So why would I want parents to allow negative emotions? Because if any emotion is silenced it becomes SUPRESSED.

If a negative emotion is allowed to run it's course supported by love and respect it will turn into a positive emotion very quickly.

Happy Parenting.

Visualize a Happy Fun Loving Child

2010-05-13T02:22:00.000-07:00

Visualizations are a powerful law of attraction tool. Visualize your child being happy and fun loving. Spend a few minutes each morning visualizing your child really enjoying life, laughing, smiling and being filled with love. This is a powerful message to the universe about what you want for your child today and always. Spending a few minutes each morning this way also helps you focus on loving your child and felling positive. So no matter what mood your child wakes up in you will be able to love and support your child and move them to a more positive feeling quickly and calmly. This has to be good. However with this type of visualization the chances are your child will wake happy.

Have fun and experiment with different desires when visualizing.

Happy Parenting

Kids and Food

2010-05-10T02:23:00.000-07:00

I want to spend a few minutes today talking about kids and food. This is still an area I have problems with. I'm sort of torn between trusting Jack to make good choices for himself or taking the other route of limiting (if not removing) certain types of foods.

I have recently read two wonderful books which can both be downloaded. Mood Food and The Happy Child Guide. I have written about both here on this blog. Both ebooks strongly suggest the removal of certain foods.

I can certainly see how the removal of certain types of foods will benefit him and the rest of our family. I do of course want what is best for all of us.

I have also just finished reading a book called Radical Unschooling by Dayna Martin. Whilst I do not Unschool my own son I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book. As most of you reading this will know I am a law of attraction life coach specialising in teaching parents, teachers and anyone involved in the care of children how to use The Law of Attraction. Dayna is clearly a wonderful, positive LOA MUM. The philosophy for unschooling is that children learn what they want/need whenever they choose. I'm not going to go into this too much as it's relatively new to me. Dayna does a fantastic job at explaining how how her family unschool and live. The point I want to get to is this. The Unschooling Philosphy also spreads to food. Unschoolers allow children to eat what they want and when they want. Dayna also points out that her children mostly choose to come to the family table to eat meals with her and her husband whic is something I want for my family too.

So do we only allow our children to eat a healthy diet with sugars etc, removed or allow your children to choose for themselves? And allow them to have whatever they want.

As a LOA MUM (law of attractoin mum) I always want my child to know he can be, have and do anything he wants. Telling my son he can't have and is not allowed completely goes against my law of attraction training.

So I have a choice to make.

Here's what I decided. I want my son to know anything is possible and he can have all he wants. That doesn't mean I have to provide all that he wants. That is up to the Universe to sort out.  Using the Mood Food Ebook and The Happy Child Guide I have taken all of the information within these books and presented the facts to Jack in an easy way he will understand. I have talked with him about the sort of foods I am now going to choose to eat and we have talked about foods he really enjoys eating. Together we have worked out a way that we are both happy with. I have decided to provide a wonderful selection of healthy foods. I will look for alternatives to his favourite foods. Jack is also allowed to ask for foods he wants which I will buy or I will simply tell him to ask The Universe for whatever he wants. Like I said earlier, it's not up to me to provide Jack with everything he wants. If he really wants it he'll attract it into his life by himself.
I am happy that my needs/desires are being met and Jack is able to make good choices for himself.  We talk a lot about how different foods make us feel.

One area of the food issue I do feel extremelly strongly about is the clean plate.  I have never ever made Jack clean his plate. By this I mean eat everything on his plate that was given to him. A child who carries on eating when they are already full just to please their parents and clean the plate will become overweight. Perhaps not now but these beliefs will stay with them and they will almost certainly face weight issues later in life.

Try offering small meals with a good mix of things your child likes.

I have found that if plenty of healthy food is offered and snacks are provided to keep hunger at bay and Jack is not bored he is more than happy to eat the foods I want him to eat. We do allow all types of food in our home but I choose to encourage foods I know help my son feel good.

I'd love to hear your veiws on this issue. Click on the comment button below and share your thoughts.

Click on the links below for more information about the books mentioned.

Mood Food

The Happy Child Guide

As with all books I talk about on this blog, please take what feels right to you and leave the rest alone.

The Happy Child Guide

2010-05-06T02:57:00.000-07:00

I love it when I get the chance to share a really great product with you. In this case the product is The Happy Child Guide Ebook.

The Ebook alone is really wonderful and works. I love reading all kinds of parenting books, articles, etc. I always tell parents I coach to take what suits them and leave the rest. I believe getting Ideas from these books is wonderful but perhaps some of the advice in theses books will not be the best way for you and your family. I recently read a wonderful parenting book which I thoroughly enjoyed. I took some of the ideas aboard and gave them a go and others did not fit with my beliefs, so I let them go. I always suggest you do the same.

The Happy Child Guide is in my opinion spot on. It's just a really nice and happy way of parenting that works.

The publishers are currently offering free bonuses worth around $200. I am told they are only going to be offering these bonuses for a short time, so if you're interested I would encourage you to take advantage of this offer now so that you don't miss out on the extras.

For more information on The Happy Child Guide Click Here!

Be sure to click on the free presentation at the bottom of the page. It's fantastic.

Let me know what you think and enjoy.

Mood Food

2010-05-04T01:13:00.000-07:00

These days we are bombarded with health advice, diet information, food advertising, etc. It's really hard to know what is good for us and what is not.

I would never ever recommend a child (or adult) diet to lose weight. I think the impact of these diets is damaging both to self esteem and body image. I do however believe we should all take good care of our bodies and what we put into it. Coming from someone who has a sweet tooth this isn't always easy. I have always tried to provide a balanced diet for my children and teach them the value of eating healthily.

When I first came across Mood Food I didn't pay too much attention. I thought it was just for children with behaviour problems. I came across these ebooks again some time later and took a closer look. This time I was more interested. Could the foods we give our children really have such a dramatic effect?

I decided to order Mood Food. The order consists of two ebooks. The first Mood Food explains what happens in our body and why we need to eat well and avoid certain types of foods. I was really impressed with this book because it gave me a clear picture of what really happens. I have to say it gave me a whole new approach to what I choose to eat and provide for my family. Instead of simply saying these foods are bad for you they explain what they are doing to your body. When you have facts like these it's much easier to make good choices for yourself and your children.

Book 2 - The Happy Kitchen is designed to help you set your kitchen up for a happy food lifestyle. It's broken down so that you can make small changes over a period of time, which I love. All great things in life start with small steps. There are recipes included too.

What I like most about this book is it's about feeling good. It's about making small positive changes and bringing back real food.

I'm just starting on organizing my kitchen with the help of The Happy Kitchen Ebook. I've already made several small changes. They were easy to make and introduce into our lives. We are already seeing and feeling the difference.

You can find outmore about Mood Food and The Happy Kitchen CLICK HERE!

The Money Spider

2010-04-29T00:40:00.000-07:00

I want to share a story about my son. Jack is 8 years old.

Before I begin I want to explain what a money spider is to me. A money spider is any tiny spider that happens to come into my presence, he is called a money spider. The money spider brings us money. I have no idea if I made this up and nobody else knows about it or if it's something that other people know all about. Anyway I like my idea.

Here's how the story goes.

We were getting out of the car the other day and Jack noticed a tiny spider. He asked me to move it, so I put the tiny spider in our garden. I told Jack it was a money spider and he asked what a money spider was.

I went on to tell him that money spiders bring you money and carried on with my day without really giving the conversation much thought.

Later that day Jack came over to me and asked when the money spider was going to bring him his money and how much would he bring.

My heart filled with happiness at this moment. As a law of attraction mum/coach I teach Jack to expect wonderful things. He is now fully expecting to receive a large amount of money as a special gift from his money spider. This is the law of attraction at it's best.

In fact Jack often attracts money. We rarely go out without him being given some money from a friend or he finds some money on the pavement etc. He's a natural money magnet. Why wouldn't he think it possible for a tiny spider to give him some special money.

Teach your children to expect wonderful things and they will attract those things into their lives.

EFT FOR KIDS

2010-04-22T02:29:00.000-07:00

EFT (Emotional Freedon Tecniques) is still a relatively unknown technique.

EFT combines Mind Body Medicine and Accupuncture. You could call EFT Mind Accupuncture.

The Technique works by tapping with the fingers on certain Meridian Points.

I love using EFT myself and I have also taught my son how to use EFT on himself. Jack loves doing his tapping and usually makes it part of his bedtime routine. He taps with his teddy bears too and occasionally on the dog.

Children have all kinds of issues to deal throughout their lives. Sometimes Jack will come home and tell me about something that made him feel unhappy at school, I'll listen to him talk and ask him about how it made him feel. Rather than offering a solution I want him to release his anxiety about the issue. I usually suggest he does a little tapping on the issue he has told me about.

As a law of attraction coach I know that these little issues, if not dealt with can keep coming back throughout our lives as limiting/negative beliefs. Now is the time to deal with the negative feeling it has caused.

I think EFT is something that can really help all families. Today I'd like to share a couple of resources to help you get started with EFT.

You can get get a free getting started pack which covers the basics of using EFT. For most people this will be more than enough for you to begin using EFT in your own life.

To get your Free Getting Started EFT Pack CLICK HERE
This is not particularly geared to using with children although it does mention some cases where EFT was used with children.

Another wonderful resource for children is Tappy Bear. If your children are anything like mine they'll love Tappy bear. He's an adorable bear with Tapping points marked out on him so that your child can easily remember the tapping points.

To find out more about Tappy Bear click on the image below

Please feel free to contact me personally if you have any questions. I can also help you with using EFT in your own life and with your children.

Email me at wendy@loaliving.com

Happy Parenting. Have Fun

2010-04-21T07:14:00.000-07:00

This is my very first You Tube video. I hope you like it. Now I've done the first one, I'm hooked. I'd love to answer some of your Law of attraction parenting questions. Please email me at wendy@loaliving.com

Are You A Supermum?

2010-04-21T00:05:00.000-07:00

I want to share a website I was recently invited to. The name is SUPERMUMS. I think the name speaks for itself. There's so much going on there. It's a really good place to chat with other mums.

Here's the link http://www.supermums.org/

Take a look for yourself.

Make A GRATITUDE Poster

2010-04-20T01:51:00.000-07:00

Whenever we show gratitude we are raising our vibrations (we are feeling good). The Universe/law of attraction responds by giving us more and more to be grateful for.

Kids love making things and THE GRATITUDE POSTER is a perfect law of attraction activity for all the family.

Get a large sheet of card.

Fill the card with pictures, photos, drawings, words that represent things that you (your child) are already grateful for in your life.

When it's made put it up somewhere your child can easily see it in bed. This way they go to sleep with really happy and positive images in their mind and wake up to the poster too. This has to be a great way for kids to start the day.

TIPS
You can add a photograph of yourself (your child) in the center of the poster. Make sure it's a happy photo.
Give your child a camera and get them to take their own photographs of people, things, places they love.
HAVE FUN!

Introducing The Law of Attraction Into Your Life FREE SKYPE WORKSHOP

2010-04-19T03:25:00.000-07:00

Introducing The Law of Attraction Into Your Life is the first Free SKYPE Workshop in a series of 5.

(Pick and choose the ones you want to take part in or book them all)

We will look at the 3 step law of attraction process and ways to intorduce the law of attraction into your life.

Date: 22nd April 2010

Where: Worlswode (via Skype)

Time: 10am (GMT+1)

Duration 1 hour.

For more information and to book your place email me at wendy@loaliving.com

Places are limited to 8 callers

I hope you can join us.

Wendy x

Fantasic Books For Children

2010-04-16T01:23:00.000-07:00

SKYPE COACHING AND FREE SKYPE WORKSHOPS

2010-04-13T03:45:00.000-07:00

LOA Living is now offering SKYPE COACHING CALLS.

My traditional telephone coaching package is for three hours (Used in time blocks of your choice)

When a client books telephone coaching with me they pay the call fees on top of the coaching fees.

Now with SKYPE Coaching available. Calls can be completely free.

If you haven't signed up for SKYPE yet. Head over to http://www.skype.com/

SKYPE is completely free to download and you can talk to other SKYPE users completely free of charge. You can also use it to make calls to ordinary landlines around the world much cheaper.

Most computers these days have built in microphones so no need to purchase anything. If you don't already have a microphone in your computer you can very cheaply buy a skype phone which plugs into your computer.

SKYPE COACHING CALLS are exactly the same as telephone coaching calls. When booking - Book the telephone package. It simply means no call charges.

SKYPE WORKSHOPS.

I will be running a series of SKYPE WORKSHOPS very soon.

Workshops will be on the following:

1. Introducing the law of attraction into your life.

2. Law of attraction in business.

3. Law of attraction for relationships.

4. Law of attraction for big things and small things.

5. Parenting with the law of attraction.

ALL WORKSHOPS ARE COMPLETELY FREE

FREE TO CALL ON SKYPE

FREE TO TAKE PART

Dates and times have yet to be arranged.

I intend to have approx 5-8 people on each call. There will be plenty of opportunity to speak up and ask questions etc.

Calls will last approximately 1 hour.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU WANT TO TAKE PART

If you are interested in taking part in a SKYPE workshop please email me wendy@loaliving.com

Let me have your SKYPE name/number.
Tell me which workshops you are interested in taking part in.
Tell me where you are in the world and what time is best for you. (Please note that my time zone is GMT + 1.

I look forward to hearing from you.

For more information on ALL of my coaching packages and to learn more about the law of attraction please go to http://www.loaliving.com/

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Quickie - Fun New Facebook Group for Mums

2010-04-12T10:09:00.000-07:00

I was invited to join this facebook group. I did and wanted to share the link with you all.
http://www.facebook.com/pages/mums-saturday-night-giveaway/107387419300837?ref=nf

Make a Genie Board

2010-04-12T08:42:00.000-07:00

Many of you will have heard of vision boards or story boards. A Genie Board is pretty much the same thing but for children. Most children like the idea of having their own personal genie who can grant wishes.

Here's what you need:

1 large sheet of card. Let your child pick the colour. Make it as big as possible.
Plain White card/paper.
Lots of brightly coloured pens/crayons
Glue
Scissors
Lots of magazines/catalogues/old cards/photographs, etc

FOR CHILDREN

What to do:
(Your child may need some help with cutting and glueing etc, but I would ask you to please allow them to add whatever they want to the picture. It really doesn't matter if you think it's impossible or not. The important message here is that anything is possible and their are no limits)

1. Draw your Genie - Give him or her a name if you want. Colour the picture in with whatever colours you like.
2. Place your Genie in the centre of the coloured card.
3. Now cut out and glue pictures of all the things you want around the edges. Draw coloured lines from your Genie to your pictures/photo's etc.
4. You can also add words.
5. You can also add your own drawings to the board.

When you're finished put it up somewhere where you see it a lot.

Look at your board lots and pretend that you already have those things. How happy will you feel when you get them?

Have fun with your Genie Boards.

Perhaps you can send me in some pictures your own Genie Boards.

Note For Parents

Let your children run wild with their Genie Boards. Let them ask for anything they want.
It is not up to you to provide these things for your child and you certainly don't need to know where they will come from.

Next time you are out shopping with your child and he/she asks for the latest toy. Tell her it's great that she wants it. Then tell him/her to ask the Genie or put it on the Genie board.

Your child may add new pictures or take pictures off at any time. They may realise after a time that they're really not that interested in the latest toy and prefer something different.

If the board gets messy Just make a new one.

Important - Let your child decide what goes on the board. The idea is for them to believe anything is possible.

Before doing the Genie Board parents often say "But I know he/she will only put material items on the board."

Well so be it. If that's all they can think of that's fine.

You can however make sure their are plenty of pictures of happy families, friends, words like love, friends, available.

If they don't choose these that's fine too.

A good idea is to do your own Genie Board.

You can add things connected to friends, family, love, spirituality, walks in beautiful parks, family get togethers, images of a beautiful garden etc.

As you work along side each other chat about your own Genie Board and ask questions about theirs too.

I hope you have a great time.

Share your comments below and please send me your pictures of your Genie boards or pictures of you making them.

Email me at wendy@loaliving.com

Big, Big Dreams are always worth having.

xxx

England, Family, Easter Eggs, Hot Cross Buns and lots of Shopping, Here I come!

2010-03-30T00:26:00.000-07:00

Well I'm heading off to England later today with my son Jack. Daddy Gets to stay home and have some quiet time for himself. A house full of women (and Jack) is too much for him.

I'm so excited about our trip. I always love visiting at Easter. I know mums already organized an Easter Egg hunt for Jack and my Niece. She'll have decorated the house with Magical Easter Egg trees and such like and I can guarantee she'll have bought hot cross buns for breakfast. Mmm, my favourite.

We've got cinema trips planned. Jack has about 4 films picked out to go and see, lots of shopping and lots of family get togethers.

I'm expecting to have a wonderful time and we love spending time with our family.

Have a wonderful Easter Everyone and have fun.

Expect to have fun today and everyday xx

Your Children Have Their Own Guidance System

2010-03-26T00:51:00.000-07:00

Another beautiful message from Abraham Hicks

Set your child a good example. When your child can clearly see you are trusting your own guidance system you aret eaching them and allowing them to trust their own guidance system.

As a parent it is your job to create a safe and loving environment for your child to grow. ALLOW them to follow their own guidance system and you consentrate on following yours.

40 Quick Parenting Tips for fans of The Law of Attraction

2010-03-23T02:41:00.000-07:00

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Parenting with the Law of Attraction

2010-03-20T07:23:00.000-07:00

I loved this video from Abraham Hicks. When I first began using the law of attraction and teaching my own son Jack, I also struggled with this issue. He'd constantly be asking for all the things he wanted and my insticts were to say "No,you can't have everything you want." I also knew this was not how to teach him the law of attraction.

I couldn't tell him that the law of attraction would give him anything he wanted and then say no you can't have that thing that you want.

When as parents we realise that we are not responsible for delivering all that our children want we begin to really show them the law of attraction.

So the next time your child says can I have... and you have no intention of getting it for them just tell them "Sure you can, you can have anything you want. Ask the Universe and wait for it to show up". Now get out out of the way and let the law of attraction do the work for you and your kids.

What Is Your Kids Attraction Personality?

2010-03-19T00:31:00.000-07:00

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Zero Worry Parenting FREE Report

2010-03-17T07:10:00.000-07:00

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Happy Mothering Sunday

2010-03-13T13:11:00.000-08:00

I know we're not quite there yet. Well at least here in Menorca it's still saturday night. But we're all on different time Zones. In UK it's mother's day on Sunday 14th March. Even though it's not mother's day here in Spain where I live, we still celebrate this special day. Being a mum is something I am so delighted to be and I think this day deserves celebrating. So mum's everywhere, whether it's mother's day where you are or not celebrate being a mum. YOU ARE AMAZING!

Happy Mother's Day xxx

Get A Personalized Letter From The Easter Bunny

2010-03-08T12:47:00.000-08:00

Go For Goals

2010-03-08T03:58:00.000-08:00

Goal setting + The law of attration + kids = Magical SUCCESS!

Who wouldn't want that for their kids? I know I do. I bought Jack the GO FOR GOALS EBOOKS about a year ago. He loves them and I think they're great.

For more information on Go For Goals Click Here!

Kids Easter Fun

2010-03-05T04:52:00.000-08:00

Easter will soon be here. I have to admit I love Easter. It usually involves a trip to stay with my mum in England and lots of family get togethers and of course lots of choclate and hot cross buns (yummy).

I wanted to share this Link with you for Kids Easter Activities. I haven't managed to download yet as I don't have my printer etc set up after moving into our new home on monday but I have had things from this company before.

Click Here! For Kids Easter Activites.

A Different Way of Schooling

2010-02-17T06:50:00.000-08:00

Traditional schooling is falling out of favor with many families each year. I came across a good ebook I wanted to share with you. The Ebook is called Montessori Parents Guide. For anyone looking for a different schooling option I think the Montessori way of schooling is a superb option and well worth conscidering.

You can read up about the ebook some more at http://tinyurl.com/yfyzyan

I would love to hear from anyone who has opted for a non traditional way of schooling.

Books To Read

2010-02-10T03:15:00.000-08:00

I love reading books and have always loved to read parenting books. The secret is to read them and take what you like and leave alone what you don't. I particularly like to read books by other parents and how they parent their own children. I mentioned a book I was reading a few days ago by Shmuley Boteach. It's called Parenting with Fire. It's been a really interesting book to read. This is a Jewish family who follow their religion with pride and dedication. The book does talk about their religion in connection with the family but is not a religious book. This book is a parenting/family book. Whilst I do not follow his religion or some of his parenting methods I think he has a strong family connection worth modeling (in your own way).

Getting ideas from a different viewpoint is a fantastic way to bring balance to your life.

Anyway, If your interested here are the details.

Press The Reset Button

2010-02-08T00:35:00.000-08:00

Do you ever wish you had a reset button attatched to your kids? In my home we all have a reset button. Of course it's imaginary but we all know what it means when someone says "Press the reset button".

All of us are guilty of getting things out of proportion or behaving badly. When Jack starts shouting and getting angry for no real reason I take hold of him and calmly say "You need to press the reset button". He'll often march off to his room at this point but he comes out again in a much better mood.

Pressing the reset button simply means changing your mood and thoughts so that they are positive and feel good.

The reset button is for everyone. Jack is very keen to tell me when I need to press my reset button.

Give it a go. It works wonders.

Zero Worry Parenting

2010-02-04T02:21:00.000-08:00

More news on the Zero Worry Parenting course.

I am now able to off you access to download a free owner's Manual. It gives you much more information about the course. I'm really excited about it and the people who are organising it are amazing.

Click on the image below and it will take you to the page you need to get your own free Owner's Manual.
It's well worth the time.

Is Television Bad For Kids?

2010-02-02T03:11:00.000-08:00

For years the debate about whether television is bad for kids or not has gone on. I'm currently reading a book called Parenting With Fire by Shmuley Boteach - My American friends will probably know him as the host of Shalom In The Home.

It's a really good book and really get's you thinking about the family and the impact we have on our children. Shmuley doesn't let his children watch any television through the week and only selected programs at the weekend.
This got me thinking. Whilst I personally don't follow this idea, I do understand where he is coming from and respect his views on this subject. My own son loves to watch television and especially films. I myself love to snuggle up on the sofa with him and a great big blanket to watch a film together. We always make it a special event. And yes we do watch SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS and I agree it is mind numbingly stupid but it makes my son laugh and whilst they are ridiculous they are basically all good and friends. He's also happy to sit with his dad and watch a documentary about how the largest ship in the world is made.

For me it's a happy medium. Television is certainly not the only thing he enjoys and it is not playing constantly so that we all have to shout above it. For me I see no harm in having the television on whilst he's having a little quiet time in the afternoon. Where I live in Spain, siestas are still common and quiet time after the midday meal is still the norm for adults and children. Jack doesn't want to have a sleep and I don't really want him to either, but quiet time is good. I like this custom.

So that's my take on the TV debate. I've added a poll to the left for you to share your opinion. Please take a minute to take part and as always please feel free to share your views with us all. Just hit the comment button below.

Happy Parenting

Wendy

Exciting News - ZERO WORRY PARENTING COURSE

2010-01-29T02:36:00.000-08:00

I'm really excited to share this news with you. I am a great fan of using the law of attraction as a parenting tool. I work personally with parents on a one to one basis and in workshops teaching how to use the law of attraction as a parenting tool and how parents can teach their own children how to use the law of attraction.

Today I want to tell you about a program that is about to be launched - Zero Worry Parenting Course. I'm already signed up, the people behind this course have years and years of experience behind them and they are such amazing people. I already recommend products by them. They are people I have been involved with for many years.

To sign up ready for the launch (I would strongly recommend you sign up now to make sure you get on board with this great course) please go to http://tinyurl.com/ykkhyob
You'll find more information about the launch.

I also just found out that Bob Doyle - One of the speakers on the hit movie THE SECRET has endorsed the course. I'm so happy he's on board.

Well let me know if you sign up and have a great time learning Zero Worry Parenting.

Let's Have A Hug

2010-01-22T01:14:00.000-08:00

Today my 8 year old son woke up grumpy and clearly in a bad mood. As a law of attraction coach I know that starting the day this way can only lead to things going wrong for him all day. This is obviously not what I want for my little guy.
He was cross about something and nothing was going his way. This had to stop right away.

I sat down on the bed as he tugged and pulled at his bed covers trying to find something he'd lost in there. I pulled him toward me and put my arms around him. His body felt tense and stiff. He was resisting my cuddles. Hmm, that doesn't last for long though. I gently rubbed his back and talk calmly to him.
"A cuddle is a nice way to start the day"
"It's so important to start the day happy. Let go of all those grumpy feelings now. They're not your friends"
Gradually I felt his body relax. We slowly snuggled up to me and I knew he was feeling happier.
All the time I was visualizing him being calm and relaxed.

Our morning continued relaxed and calm. He went to school happy and I watched him run in with a smile on his face knowing he'd have a good morning.

This could have gone totally different and believe me when I say I've had very different mornings to this in the past. As parents our actions have a massive impact on our children. If I had rushed him and told him to stop being grumpy he would have simply got more and more angry until we ended up yelling at each other and both having miserable days.

I used to believe that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. Now I don't. Now I know it is the most important job in the world and when we choose it, there is an easy way.

Happy Parenting.

As always my love and support

Wendy x

Affirmations For Children

2010-01-20T01:11:00.000-08:00

Here's a picture of Jack in Florida. He's Just made his own Pizza. It's going off to the oven to be cooked. Looks good doesn't it? I think we've got a little chef on our hands.

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I love affirmations and I try to use them with my son as often as possible. A word of warning here. Make your affirmations natural and genuine.

You're a great listener (when he's sat quietly and listened to you even for 1 minute)
You are so clever, you read so well
You are great at riding your bike
I love you (Yes, this is a very powerful affirmation which is sometimes overlooked)
You are such an important part of this family
You are so polite.

I'm sure you can add many more to this list. Always use the present tense and always be positive.
As parents, it's actually easy to slip up and give out a negative message without meaning to. A few weeks I was tired and a little short tempered and my son was getting all his toys out. We have a rule of put one lot of toys away before you get more out. He doesn't always remember and normally I just remind him and he sorts it. However as I was already tired and not in the best mood already I said (in a grumpy mummy voice) "Aargh Jack you're driving me crazy. You're so messy. If you don't tidy up in the next 5 minutes they will all go in the bin." Wow, was I in a bad mood. My son however, up until that point had been in a very good mood then began getting angry. He felt I was being a mean mummy, which of course I was.

This not so good scene carried on for a few minutes, until I finally had that "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" moment. I took hold of my son, took a deep breath and quietly said to him. "I'm sorry, mummy is feeling tired and grumpy. I was wrong to say that to you." I went on to explain he still needed to tidy away some of his toys and I went and lay down on my bed for 5 minutes. I closed my eyes and just let it all go. I then went through the things I love about my son and the things I have to be grateful for. When I returned to the room a few minutes later Jack was busy playing with his cars and all his other toys had been tidied away.
I made it a priority to use plenty of positive affirmations for the rest of that day.

I think most of us have the odd day when we know we're doing it all wrong. It's not the end of the world. As long as your child knows that he is loved and you say sorry and put things right, it's okay. Here are my 3 rules for when we get it wrong.

Recognize we're not behaving the way we like
Stop, say "Sorry" and take a breather.
Move on using positive parenting.

The move on part is essential. If you dwell on it your child will feel it and for you it's like emotionally beating yourself up. It serves no purpose. Move on and be a positive role model for your kids. NOBODY gets it right all the time.

Sleeping Angels

2010-01-11T02:05:00.000-08:00

Wow! No, really - Wow!

I was told about Sleeping Angels sometime ago by a good friend. She told me about a CD she had which she had bought for her son. She was so excited about it and said she couldn't believe the diference in her son. She told me she'd "been pulling her hair out". She went on to tell me how he went from being generally rude and bad tempered to being polite and helpful in a matter of days. I've used positive affirmation CD's before so I didn't really feel the need to buy another.

However, I decided I'd download some information about the CD and thought I'd let you all know about it at some stage. After all this is what my aim is for this blog, to let you know about ways to help you and your child be positive and happy. So a couple of nights ago I looked up the website address I'd been given and as I read the information I just knew I needed this CD. The price was great so I downloaded the recording immediately to my computer and burned it onto a disk.

My 8 year old son was already sleeping by this time. In the information it says that you can play the recordings whilst your child is sleeping. So I put it on play and continued playing the CD for about 3 hours until I went to bed.

The words used are beautiful and so positive. I felt great hearing the words too. Research has shown that we (children included) take in what is being said even when we are sleeping.

My son is a lovely boy and in general polite and happy but a 29 hour journey with about 2 hours sleep and general disruption to his life over Christmas took it's toll on his behaviour. I have to admit, that's a trait he gets from me. It took it's toll on my behaviour too. For the first two nights I played the CD only once he was sleeping. A concept my husband cannot get to grips with at all. Last night I put the CD on whilst he was awake but sleepy. I told him it was all the nice things I thought about him recorded onto a CD and that I loved him. He was fast asleep in a few minutes.

On the recording you'll hear things like :

You're a great child
You must be so proud of the way you behave
You always go to bed on time
You have the most beautiful manners
I love the way you're such a happy child

There are many, many more really positive affirmations set to lovely peaceful music.

Oh, by the way I purchased the download for children 5-12 year. There are downloads for younger children, teens, parents and for special areas such as bedwetting.

This is a beautiful CD. I'm so pleased I decided to purchase the download.

Please let me know if you've had experience with Sleeping Angels or download any of the recordings. I love hearing from you about you own experiences.

For more information Click Here!

Have a wonderful day

Wendy x

Back To School

2010-01-08T02:18:00.000-08:00

Jack has started back at school today. We start a little late here in Spain as we celebrate the 3 Kings which was on the 6th of January. It's a pretty big celebration here. We still celebrate Christmas and even though we are not Spanish we always give Jack a special present from the Kings. He loves it as it's his special day to get an extra present. He's been busy playing with all his new toys. The favourites are Hot Wheels and K-nex. He's been creating some pretty amazing constructions. I'm very impressed. He also got Cluedo, lego games (Ramses Pyramid) and monopoly deal (the card game). They're all great games and he loves games time, especially when daddy plays, although daddy's game playing skills leave a lot to be desired.

I'm making him soup for lunch (it's his favourite at the minute) and my time is all his this afternoon. So games and cuddles here we come.

Have a fantastic weekend.

Wendy

Happy New Year

2010-01-05T06:58:00.000-08:00

I want to take a minute to wish you all a wonderful, happy, healthy and fun 2010. Many, many people make new years resolutions at the beginning of each new year. I would like to suggest something new for this year. Start the year by being thankful for everything you have already. Celebrate the amazing life you already have. When you have celebrated every area of your life, ask! What is it you want for the year ahead? What will make your world even more wonderful? Ask - And continue to celebrate those wonderful things that are already yours.

My love and support to you all for the amazing year we have ahead of us.

Wendy x

Happy Christmas Wishes

2009-12-11T04:22:00.000-08:00

Happy Christmas Everyone! Today is my last blogging day before I head off on my Christmas Travels. I'm not leaving until Tuesday but I know I'm going to be super busy on Monday and I didn't want to miss saying Happy Christmas to you all.

I want to quickly mention my law of attraction blog http://loa4llife.blogspot.com/

All this week I've been adding posts about how to create your ideal Christmas. I really hope you'll drop by and take a look. Even though I say so myself they really are great posts.

Christmas is a magical time of the year. Decorations, celebrations, gifts, family gatherings and letters to Santa. Children understand the magic of Christmas. New toys will be opened and played with, food will be eaten but the thing your children will treasure the most is the time you spend with them. In all the preparations that come with Christmas remember that the real magic is the love we share.

Have a magical Christmas

My love and blessings to all of you

Wendy x

Don't Worry About Your Kids So Much - They Don't Need It

2009-12-07T03:55:00.000-08:00

It's a big dangerous world out there, full of nasty people and things to hurt our children. Why wouldn't we worry about them? After all they're inexperienced, vulnerable and defenceless.

Okay, there are times when you should worry but most of the time we worry for the sake of worrying.

Over-worried parents become over-protective parents and that's just going to restict your child and make them anxious.

Worrying to much about your children can actually be destructive. It can limit the development of the children and it can have a negative impact on the quality of the parenting you are able to provide.

From a law of attraction point of view (what we focus on we attract) the very thing that you worry about is in fact what you are attracting.

So if you worry that your child will fall if he climbs - you are giving it your focus = You are putting a strong message out to the universe to bring about a fall for your child. This is NOT a result you would ever want for your child.

As you probably already know I'm a huge fan of hypnosis to help with all negative beliefs, thoughts, habits.
I particularly recommend hypnosis for this area as it really is vitally important we control our worrying so that we are not attracting the very things we are worrying about.

How hypnosis can transform your anxious fears into realism

Worry less about your children is an audio hypnosis session for parents or guardians. Using the latest psychological understandings and the transformative power of hypnosis, this session will get you relaxing in ways you would never have thought possible. You will physically experience the effects of reducing worry in your body and in your brain.

Regular listening to this powerful session will allow you to develop a wonderfully calm, clear and objective attitude to the risks and opportunities of life - for yourself as well as for your children. You will discover how being less concerned about them actually makes you better able to recognize the risks that your children will meet, and how to deal with them effectively.

To learn more about this particular hypnosis download and others Click Here!

I have personally used this download with amazing results. I want the best for my kids and I know you do too. I look back and I can see the things I worried about often ended up happening. Now I am able to thing positively about situations I view things differently and focus on what I want to happen.

That's all from me for today. I'm off in search of Jack's Nintendo charger. 1 week and 1 day until holidays and a very long flight, we need the charger! So we're playing the CHARGER HUNT game instead of the BEAR HUNT game. Well, we have to be creative or we'll never get it done.

Have fun

Wendy

Feel Good Christmas Movie

2009-12-01T06:16:00.000-08:00

My little fella is feeling poorly, he's been off colour since Sunday. When my mum phoned yesterday to check on him she insisted I give him the Advent present she'd sent for him a day early to cheer him up.

The advent present she'd sent was the SANTA BUDDIES dvd . We put it the film on immediately and it certainly made him feel better for a little while. Jack loves the BUDDIES and he's got the whole collection now and they're all great.

I wanted to share this with you just because it's such a great feel good movie, focusing on the true meaning of Christmas. I think sometimes we can all use this particular message.

Anyway, it's the 1st of December and I'm looking forward to Christmas with my lovely family. We're heading to Florida again for Christmas so Christmas officially starts for us on the 15th. We don't buy so many presents these days we focus on having a great time together and having fun.

I want to wish you all an amazing, magical Christmas.

The Benefits of Kids Cooking In The Kitchen

2009-11-30T09:46:00.000-08:00

Kids learning their way around the kitchen is about more than getting them to help you peel potatoes or stir the cake batter, although it is nice when they can help you out. Kids cooking is also about more than trying to keep them busy so they're not whiney and bored, although it does make for a fun time. The other benefits I'm thinking of are what they learn in math, science, literature, and art when they cook. Ssshh... most kids don't even realize they're learning school stuff while they're having a good time in the kitchen.

Math and Cooking

Anyone who can cook can do math. So much of what you do in the kitchen involves doing math and that's why children can learn through following simple recipes.

Take, for example, the subject of adding fractions. When kids have to learn fractions by looking at a bunch of numbers on a page, it doesn't always make sense. However, if you decide you're going to make a double batch of chocolate chip cookies and all of those ingredients (most of which are written as fractions) need to be doubled, your son or daughter can find great motivation in learning how to add those fractions together. After all, they wouldn't want to come up short on the chocolate chips.

Science and Cooking

If you've watched many cooking programs, you may have already become familiar with the magic of science that's at work daily in your kitchen. Helping your children notice the science and giving them permission to experiment with it can be a great learning experience. It will also make for fun lessons they won't soon forget.

For example, you could teach the children about the three stages of matter: gas, solids, and liquids. You could boil water and watch it evaporate, you could freeze water to make it into a solid, and you could use water in its liquid form as part of cooking. If you have several kids, ask them to predict how long it will take for an ice cube to become water vapor on the stove top.

You can design experiments that show what happens to cookies if you leave out the baking soda or the flour. My daughter got firsthand experience with this very thing last weekend when we ran out of flour. She found that pancake mix is not a good substitute.

Literature and Cooking

Another fun way to use cooking in your lessons is by incorporating it into your studies of literature. For many years, schools across the country have been serving green eggs and ham to celebrate the Dr. Seuss classic. Your child could prepare the same thing with a little bit of food coloring.

When your kids are reading stories about children in different lands, find recipes for the foods that kids eat in those countries. You can create a whole meal around a foreign country; and cooking up the native food is an educational winner.

Another idea is to set aside a certain part of the day for literature discussion. Your kids can prepare a snack while discussing the book they are reading. It's a good way to get them used to discussing books.

Art and Cooking

One of the other nice things about the kitchen is that it's a great place for kids to show off their creativity. Children can use traditional food items, such as uncooked macaroni, to create artwork. They can also make pancakes to look like butterflies or mice. Ask your kids to create a sugar cookie then decorate it so that it serves as a model of a human cell.

With kids cooking in the kitchen, the time can be both educational and fun. Help them explore new worlds through their kitchen at home!

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It's almost time to go and collect JM from school. He's a super tired boy and I think some quiet time with a special movie and a cuddle will go down well today.

Have a wonderful weekend and have FUN!